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July 6th, 2009, 08:47 AM
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I am miscarrying as I type. I am grateful to my body for recognizing that there was a problem and doing this now, rather than several weeks down the road. I'm amazed that our bodies are so wise to see what we can't. I had a strange vibe a few days ago, so I can't say that I'm altogether surprised...anyways, I'm still going to go see my mw and talk with her because this will be my 4th loss after my daughter. one M/C, then 2 chemicals, and now another M/C. I probubly won't totally believe it is true until I'm bleeding heavily because thats the kind of person I am... but I am cramping mildly.

I'm excited to sleep because I haven't slept in 2 days now from worry. I'm concerned about what this will mean for ttc. I'm annoyed to have to start over. And not sure what exactly to do. we weren't ttc with my first m/c so it wasn't a problem.

anyways, trying to look forward to ttc again with all of you ladies. Although the thought of ttc again makes me want to have an only child.
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July 6th, 2009, 09:03 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. This is such a great group of women to help you through all the bittersweet moments of TTCAL.
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July 6th, 2009, 09:41 AM
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Welcome and I'm so sorry for your loss.
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July 6th, 2009, 11:05 AM
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So sorry to hear about your loss...this board has brought me a lot of peace, I hope it does for you as well. Welcome!
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July 6th, 2009, 11:37 AM
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I'm sorry as well to have to welcome you here. HUGS hun. You'll always have plenty of shoulders to lean on on this board. I look forwarding to getting to know you and going through the ttcal journey with you!
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July 6th, 2009, 11:52 AM
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I am so sorry for you loss. This is a great board to belong to.. The support is amazing, and so are these ladies.. HUGS to you..
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July 6th, 2009, 11:58 AM
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I'm so sorry, Danielle Thinking of you and your family.
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July 6th, 2009, 12:43 PM
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I am sorry for your losses!!! HUGS!!!!
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July 6th, 2009, 02:19 PM
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Sorry for your loss and for the terrible path you have been down. Definately have a chat with your m/w and see if they can look into it further for you. 4 m/c in a row is lot for one person to deal with. If you scroll through the 2010 chat forum, you will see alot of us having similar thoughts (me included) around ttc - whether to continue, what to do etc.... Some of the lovely ladies in that thread have given their perspective on the matter, which for me provided some clarity, I hope it does for you too.

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July 6th, 2009, 03:14 PM
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You really have such a sense of peace about you. I wish I had a tenth of that! I'm so sorry to read what you are going through. Let us know if there is anything we can do.
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July 6th, 2009, 04:12 PM
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i'm so sorry that you are going through this. btw your daughter is gorgeous!
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July 6th, 2009, 04:22 PM
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I am so sorry for your losses. You are most welcome here, and I hope that you will feel comfortable to ask us questions. We are all here to support each other.
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July 6th, 2009, 05:47 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss, hun. Def. have a talk with your m/w. Gl and I hope your stay here is short and sweet...get that sticky bfp hun
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July 7th, 2009, 11:23 AM
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Welcome, Danielle. I don't post here often, but I come around sometimes. I'm so sorry you're here.
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July 7th, 2009, 11:36 AM
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I am so sorry to hear about your loss sweetie.. This is a great group of women to talk to..
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