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July 6th, 2009, 06:39 PM
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I have been trying since December 2008. My husband and I got pregnant in March, which I sadly miscarried at 6 weeks. I started trying right away and still no luck. I am very frustrated, as I am sure many of you understand. I am experiencing the craziest/worst cycle right now. I have been using a clearblue fertility monitor since December and I usually ovulate day 14-17. This cycle I decided I was going to temp too. Please look at my chart, I don’t know what the heck to think. It is crazy. Plus, I didn’t get a peak on my monitor until day 18, which probably means I ovulated on the 19th day of my cycle. Definitely later than normal and my temps are all over the place and haven’t showed that I ovulated yet. On Thursday which was cycle day 16 for me I had tons of CF by Saturday (which was when I got my peak) I had very little CF.

Other things I have been doing –
Prenatal vitamins since October
Evening Prime rose in March only – the month I got pregnant but than miscarried so I am scared to try taking it again incase it had something to do with my miscarriage.
Fish oil and Omega 3s – Started in June
B vitamin – started in June


I have made an appointment with my OB/GYN for this Friday. I need some advice, hopefully she will help me.

Any suggests and support is greatly appreciated.


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July 6th, 2009, 07:55 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss! I'm not much help with temping and charting but I do know my cycles were wacky after my last loss. It took me a good 3-4 months to feel normal again. I hope your ob can give you some answers!
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July 6th, 2009, 08:02 PM
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I know that it's frustrating, but it sounds like you are doing everything that you can. You didn't post a link to your chart so I can't offer any opinions on it. You'll find that after a few months of charting and using your monitor that you will get a much clearer picture of your cycles and when you O.

After my m/c I started to chart and it was a few months after that I realized that my O date can vary every cycle.

Good luck.
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July 6th, 2009, 11:16 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss. I'm just starting my first cycle after miscarriage. The only thing I did different the cycle I got pregnant, was more bding around O time and 'doggie style' (i'm convinced this keeps the spermies in better). I can only imagine how frustrating it must be to have a hard time after already being pregnant in the past. Good luck to you.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I wanted to let you know that for awhile after my m/c my cycles were way out of whack. Hope yours return to normal soon.
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July 7th, 2009, 06:26 AM
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I'm sorry for your loss. Yes it is very frustrating. My cycles have been really weird as well since my m/c. The thing I have noticed the most is that my CM is 'off' timing. I get 1 or 2 days of EWCM a few days before I O and then around O time...nothing. Last cycle I used PreeSeed and I think it helped me get a BFP, unfortunately it turned into a chemical. I've also been taking Vitamin B6 and Folic Acid plus one of the dr.s mentioned for me to take Vitamin D. Good luck!
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