[BigGrin]

Hey everyone, I had a D&E performed on July 2nd due to a miscarriage at 9+ weeks. I was released to resume all "activities" including sex the following Wednesday as the doc reported my cervix was closed. We wanted to wait until I stopped bleeding and he also was very caring about when I was emotionally up to intimacy again.

Last night everything was going nicely until he penetrated completely and I felt a really bad pain on my cervix. It felt like I was still badly bruised or something and it kind of killed the mood. He was so gentle and kind about it but I am sad that we can't really enjoy sex right now. Have any other women experienced this post D&E? How long until the pain went away?

[Kary♥RN]

OH, I am so sorry about what happened... I didn't have that kind of pain.. "TMI coming" I had god awful pains right at orgasm the first couple times after my d/e. It was like someone was stabing me in the uterus radiaing up to what felt like the ovaries...to my right side...

I would give a call to you dr if you are concerned... I am not sure if that is normal or not. HUGS

[starrsgirl]

I had some cramps post D&C while/after BDing but nothing major. I might call your doc about it too just to check...

[jaypbee]

we waited a good 3-4 weeks post d and c (not because we were told to, but neither of us were really "there" yet). no pain, but again, probably because it was so long after.

[Boble]

i would definitely check with your dr. I had pain while bd'ing after my d&c but i think it was because we went at it too soon.

[JessP]

Some people have really sensitive cervix's. So it could just be that you are one of those people. Hormones do some funny things to our bodies. I am one of those people and it didn't start until years after starting to be active. I only have problems in certain positions. Sorry if TMI. It could just be your body needing to heal as well . I would check with your doctor but didn't want you to think it was completely strange.

[.:Shortcake:.]

Hun I had a D&C and we were allowed to start having sex after a week. Well we tried and it was very painful for the first 2-3 weeks. When I called the doctor about it she said that can be common for up to 2 months afterwards. Hope this helps.

[Mel1979]

We waited about a week to BD after our D&C but I never experienced any pain. I hope it eases soon, it's not like we need any extra obstacles in this stressful journey

[BigGrin]

This was really helpful information. I am thinking maybe my body hasn't returned completely back to normal yet and I need a bot more time. My husband is very understanding and says he is ready when I am ready. I am hoping I will be back to "normal" by the time I O again. <crosses fingers>

[Jennifer-Jacob's Mommy]

I didnt have a d&c when I misscarried cause it was really early . But I just wanted to say I am sorry that you lost your little bean... hope everything goes good and you get another bean and sticks this time

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