Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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July 21st, 2009, 06:58 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Jeff is home
And...AF is late.
Earlier this month, after talking about TTC next cycle, Jeff and I had unprotected sex. I was pretty sure I knew why, but I casually asked Jeff when we were getting ready for our weekend trip if I should pack a condom. That eventually led to him telling me that he didn't want to wait to TTC at all (I knew it!).
We did a lot more bd'ing after that. I have no idea when I o'd this cycle, because my body has been all over the place. I'm atleast a day late (unless I'm going through another 40 day cycle, but by the position of my cervix, I haven't o'd anytime in the last week, and on my last long cycle, I o'd around CD 27). It could definitely be from stress. I have a lot of symptoms that could be EPS, or just PMS.
I'm getting my yearly physical and pap done today (fun  ), so I'm asking my doctor for a pee test. Jeff and I agreed last night that we want it to be just us for awhile, and we'd talk about a baby again in 6 months. I know that it's not great timing, but if I'm pregnant, this baby was so wanted, and will be so loved. I'm starting to get my hopes up...
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Last edited by ..Penelope..; July 27th, 2009 at 05:47 AM.
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July 21st, 2009, 07:03 AM
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I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you. Update us after your appointment. I hope you get your BFP.
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July 21st, 2009, 07:11 AM
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nakmaster
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Oh my gooooooooodness!!!!!!! I am going to be anxiously waiting for an update!!!
ETA - Sometimes the Dr.'s pee test isn't as sensitive as a FRER...just something to think about.
Sounds like what happened with DH and I last time...we talked about it, decided to wait...and BAM I was preggo.
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July 21st, 2009, 07:26 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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P I am so excited for you!! I was going to PM you today to see how you were doing!!!!!
can't wait for your results... but even if it is negative you are not out!!! and no matter what happens with this cycle you are back in a good place with Jeff and that is exciting even with out this possibility!
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July 21st, 2009, 07:39 AM
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Newbie
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oh, I am so excited for you P! please hurry back and let us know what the dr says.
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July 21st, 2009, 07:51 AM
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Exciting! Great news....! Can't wait for an update!
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July 21st, 2009, 08:25 AM
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Is there an update yet?
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July 21st, 2009, 09:10 AM
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Oh how exciting! I am glad that Jeff is home and that you are late  . Let us know we are all excited it looks like. Gosh this makes me want to be prego so bad  . Only 6 more weeks till we can TTC......tick tick tick.
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July 21st, 2009, 09:15 AM
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fingers crossed! hope you get a wonderful surprise at your appointment!
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July 21st, 2009, 09:31 AM
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P THAT IS GREAT NEWS!!! I am so EXCITED for you!!! Are you home yet?? I can't wait to hear!! OH I AM SO HAPPY!!! To hear Jeff is back home! YEA!!! YEA!!
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July 21st, 2009, 10:14 AM
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Prayers going up for you! Oh, I hope this is it!!!
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July 21st, 2009, 10:34 AM
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Thanks, ladies
My doctor annoys me SO much sometimes! She wouldn't give me a test until I was a week late  Thank goodness Heather's post convinced me to buy a FRER on the way to my appointment! I held my pee ALL the way home
Funny story...on the bus, there was this preggo woman sitting beside an old man, and their bellies matched  I wanted to take a picture with my cell, but I was too afraid of getting caught.
Ok, off to test now...
P.S. Misty, I love your new name  Can you ask JM to reset your password for you?
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July 21st, 2009, 10:43 AM
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AHHHHH HELLO???? YOU CANT LEAVE US HANGING!! Did you pee????? HELLO???
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July 21st, 2009, 10:46 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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seriously. HELLO! tell us!
living vicariously through you right now!
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July 21st, 2009, 10:49 AM
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nakmaster
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OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG........I'm hitting refresh like crazy!!!!
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July 21st, 2009, 10:52 AM
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BFN
I'm going to get my hair done to cheer myself up. And I will definitely have a glass of wine tonight. Oh, and maybe a hotdog for dinner
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Last edited by ..Penelope..; July 21st, 2009 at 11:08 AM.
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July 21st, 2009, 10:53 AM
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nakmaster
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Well it is still early P.....if you are only a day late!!! Don't give up hope until AF shows!!!!
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July 21st, 2009, 10:54 AM
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You are only a day late... You are still not out!!!! Hang in their P!!
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July 21st, 2009, 11:07 AM
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I know that you guys are right...but I need to give up hope, because otherwise I will drive myself NUTS until AF arrives. Seriously, the minute that I have in it my head that I MIGHT be pregnant, it's like that's all I can think about, and I HAVE to test OMGRIGHTNOW. The trip home today was excruciating.
Jeff and I will be NTNP, instead of actually preventing, for the next 6 months, so there's always a chance...
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July 21st, 2009, 11:15 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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awww. I'm sorry it was bfn. But, it wasn't FMU either so don't give up just yet! I know it's hard coz all you want is to hold your pee another 5 hours to make it concentrated to poas again!
fingers crossed for you. and toes.
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