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July 23rd, 2009, 07:59 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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and i'm so upset. I had a MC on June 1 only to get pregnant again a few weeks later. I went for my 1st US and they saw nothing but an empty sac, and now I'm experiencing heavy spotting and on an off cramping. I go back to the dr today for some blood work to see if my numbers are going in the right direction but my instinct tells me that I'm in the early stages of a MC and I'm so heartbroken. I'm trying to stay positive but it's so hard to knowing how easy it can be all taken away.
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July 23rd, 2009, 08:22 AM
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I am so sorry. I am in the same situation, just earlier in the pregnancy than you are. Darn it, this really is hard and I wish this wasn't happening to you.
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July 23rd, 2009, 08:24 AM
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oh, no. i'm so, so sorry.
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July 23rd, 2009, 08:27 AM
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missy, how are you holding up, i nearly cried when i read yours. No one should have to go thru this. I just figured that after having one MC that the odds were now in my favor. Everyone is telling me to stay positive, but it's hard to.
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July 23rd, 2009, 08:31 AM
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Hugs. I am so sorry your going through this. If you need anything please PM me. I went through my second loss not too long ago and I took it just as hard. Its not fair.
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July 23rd, 2009, 08:43 AM
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 I m so sorry you are both going through this again. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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July 23rd, 2009, 09:30 AM
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July 23rd, 2009, 09:39 AM
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HUGS to both... Just try to stay positive. After you have one loss.. you are looking at it as, it is going to happen again.. m/s can come and go. I hope this is the case for you. But I do understand since I have also went through two losses.. and had lost some of my symptoms.. and than the second loss was confirmed..
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July 23rd, 2009, 09:46 AM
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Oh no.. I really hope everything is fine.. Hang in there hun.... I am praying for you..
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July 23rd, 2009, 11:07 AM
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I also had my 2nd loss in June. I'm so sorry. I can relate to thinking after the 1st one that I wouldn't have to go through it again. I hope you get good news. Hugs.
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July 23rd, 2009, 12:54 PM
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I'm very sorry; I am hoping for good news for you!
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July 23rd, 2009, 01:22 PM
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I'm hoping for postive outcomes too hun. I'm so sorry you even have to go through one miscarriage.... let alone the fear of a second. I don't understand why this happens to us. It's so frusterating, and so depressing. I just want healthy babies for all of us!
Please please lean on us if you need to. Lots of hugs... lots and lots and lots of hugs....
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July 23rd, 2009, 02:22 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by mmllhh
missy, how are you holding up, i nearly cried when i read yours. No one should have to go thru this. I just figured that after having one MC that the odds were now in my favor. Everyone is telling me to stay positive, but it's hard to.
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I am in denial. how are you doing sweetie?
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July 23rd, 2009, 02:55 PM
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I am so sorry you are going through this. I hope that the tech was just stupid and things will turn out ok. Lots of hugs for ya.
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July 23rd, 2009, 07:20 PM
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i am so sorry that you're dealing with this yet again.
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July 23rd, 2009, 07:28 PM
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I have to say that when I was pregnant with Alivia I went in for an ultrasound at 7weeks & I only saw a gestational sac and yolk sac,2 weeks later saw Alivia.I'm not sure about the bleeding but with Jarren I had old blood(discharge)the WHOLE first trimester.I was sure I was going to have another m/c(I had one 3 months prior to getting pregnant w/ Jarren).I hope and pray you and your baby will be okay.(((LOTS OF HUGS)))
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July 23rd, 2009, 08:44 PM
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July 23rd, 2009, 09:34 PM
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I'm so sorry....big hugs!
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July 23rd, 2009, 11:14 PM
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I hope you are wrong. Big hugs honey.
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July 24th, 2009, 02:49 AM
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I am so sorry, I really hope you are wrong
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