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SkyBaby · #1 July 25th, 2009, 01:16 PM

We just got back from the doctor's office today and he confirmed a miscarriage. The levels in my bloodwork came back as a 6. He also said I'm having an unusually easy miscarriage. My pain isn't bad. I don't have much of anything right now but a dull ache.. but that could just be my heart. He said I'm pretty much finishing up. He also said DH and I will be safe to try again this September. The only question I have is Why? This is what I get for going public so early. My uterus shrank back to what it normally would be without a baby. I was supposed to be 7 weeks, but he said there probably wasn't even a baby in there, because of how low the levels are measuring even now, since the actual miscarriage probably happened yesterday while I was passing all those large clots and lots of blood. DH and I sat and cried together for a while. I think he's pretty much done crying, but I'm not. I'm going to give my heart and body time to heal. Maybe I can be in the May or June ddc. I'll be reading on here, but you probably wont see me around anymore.. *is moving to TTCAL board*

This was my first pregnancy.

**Edited to add:

Where can I get one of those beautiful stamps some of you ladies have about your angel babies? And/or maybe even those counters/tickers?

..Penelope.. · #2 July 25th, 2009, 02:17 PM

I'm so sorry, honey

I know that it may be hard to believe right now, but this isn't your fault.

I hope that being here helps you even a little bit. Please feel free to vent, cry, rage, or just lurk. We're here for you.

~InHisHands~ · #3 July 25th, 2009, 02:36 PM

I am so sorry for your loss!

I think we can all relate!

KDD · #4 July 25th, 2009, 03:25 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss. Cry as much as you need to. There is no rule that says you have to stop crying.

momof6lopez · #5 July 25th, 2009, 04:03 PM

Im so sorry for such an awful experience with your first pregnancy. Chances are in your favor it was just a fluke and your next one will be healthy. We can all relate to the pain, and Im happy to see that your giving yourself some time to heal. It has been 4 months for me, and this is the first month that I feel ready to move on. We will be hear for you sweetie. Im so sorry again

SkyBaby · #6 July 25th, 2009, 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by .Penelope.

I'm so sorry, honey

I know that it may be hard to believe right now, but this isn't your fault.

I hope that being here helps you even a little bit. Please feel free to vent, cry, rage, or just lurk. We're here for you.

I'm trying to tell myself it's not, but there are so many whatifs bouncing through my head right now..

Thank you so much!

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Originally Posted by ~InHisHands~

I am so sorry for your loss!

I think we can all relate!

Thanks.. I just need time to heal, both emotionally and physically. DH and I are planning on trying again this September.

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Originally Posted by KDD

I'm so sorry for your loss. Cry as much as you need to. There is no rule that says you have to stop crying.

Thanks.. I'm crying less than I was yesterday.. but still quite a bit..

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Originally Posted by momof4lopez

Im so sorry for such an awful experience with your first pregnancy. Chances are in your favor it was just a fluke and your next one will be healthy. We can all relate to the pain, and Im happy to see that your giving yourself some time to heal. It has been 4 months for me, and this is the first month that I feel ready to move on. We will be hear for you sweetie. Im so sorry again

I'm already praying for a healthy baby next time around. DH and I are planning to try again this September. I'm probably still going to cry, even when it is a distant memory. Thank you so much..

mmllhh · #7 July 25th, 2009, 05:20 PM

Hey Sky, I wanted to thank you for your kind words on my post. I can totally understand what you are going thru right now. If you need to talk PM me and we can have a cry together. I does get 'easier' I promise.

~InHisHands~ · #8 July 25th, 2009, 05:55 PM

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Originally Posted by SkyBaby

**Edited to add:

Where can I get one of those beautiful stamps some of you ladies have about your angel babies? And/or maybe even those counters/tickers?

Not sure if this is what you are talking about but...
You can get several blinkies here and here (Angel Graphics and blinkies). You can also do a google search for more blinkies or snag our blinkies by right clicking & saving them to your computer.

And here is where I got the counter in my siggie... Families.com's Counter Box section - Families.com

Mel1979 · #9 July 25th, 2009, 05:55 PM

I am so sorry for your loss

Be sure to cry and vent as much as you need to. There is no set healing period. It does get easier but it is an ongoing struggle and some days are worse then others.

If you go to snugglepie.com and click on angel counter boxes. Then just follow the steps to create one. You then need to copy the URL and paste it to your signature in JM. It doesn't look like you have a signature yet, if you go to user cp and then you can create one.

JessP · #10 July 25th, 2009, 09:19 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. I wish there was more I could say or do. We are here for you and understand. Please vent or cry or just talk its ok either way. If you are trying in September I will be right there with you. I hope we can be in the same DDC

. Take all the time you need to heal and grieve.

Magicaledelishus · #11 July 25th, 2009, 11:57 PM

Oh no I'm sorry.. Your description sounds a lot like mine; I had a pretty painless miscarriage but the emotional pain was unbearable.
*hugs*

~~~Sara~~~ · #12 July 26th, 2009, 12:04 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you can find some comfort with those of us that have been there, in my case twice.

mlyster · #13 July 26th, 2009, 05:49 PM

As the others ladies I too am sorry for your loss. I took an entire week off after my miscarriage and cried for days! Then I picked myself up and slowly got back to real life. It has been 4.5 months and I still cry from time to time. DH just hugs me and knows I just need to let it out. I have found so much comfort in this board and the ladies here - I am sure you will too!

starrsgirl · #14 July 26th, 2009, 08:38 PM

Just wanted to send some hugs your way!! I'm sorry for your loss...we hope you'll consider sticking around. This board has kept me sane on those really really bad days.

MrsB1227 · #15 July 27th, 2009, 11:38 AM

i am very sorry for your loss. You will find much comfort and information here.

missy123 · #16 July 27th, 2009, 12:37 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. They are so hard emotionally. We are here for you.

Loving6 · #17 July 27th, 2009, 07:47 PM

I'm so sorry.

farasha · #18 July 28th, 2009, 06:58 AM

Hugs hun... I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you find the support you need on this board. I look forward to getting to know you.

If you're still looking for the ticker, a lot of us have angel tickers from snugglepie.com