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July 29th, 2009, 03:51 AM
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Hello ladies...
I don't post to this forum very much bc I have a hard time talking ab my loss. I usually post in the Am I Pregnant forum. In April of 08 I delivered a little girl at 27 weeks. She was stillborn.  We were a little hesitant to try again but we did. This morning I tested and I am pregnant. Yeah!!! At the same time I just want to crawl up in a hole and not come out until this is over with. I am so scared and right now I can't enjoy this because I am worried that something will happen. I just don't know how I am going to handle this.
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July 29th, 2009, 04:07 AM
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Hi Melissa, I am so so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine how hard it must be to have delivered your beautiful baby at 27 weeks and to now have to worry rather than enjoy your pregnancy. ...but... congratulations by the way on your pregnancy!! I hope you can feel some excitement and once you are holding your new baby in your arms, I'm sure it will feel worthwhile. Do you visit the Stillbirth board at all? I'm sure the ladies in there would be able to give you support also in being pregnant again.
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July 29th, 2009, 04:34 AM
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I'm so sorry but can totally relate to being anxious about being pg again, not the s/b but the emotions.
Congrats on your pg & I'll say a prayer for you!
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July 29th, 2009, 05:24 AM
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Thanks so much ladies. Prayers would be great!
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July 29th, 2009, 06:24 AM
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I'm so sorry hun for the loss of your beautiful baby girl.We all understand how anxious you are about this next pregnancy. If you need any support or just to talk, feel free. If you'd like even more support, the pregnancy after loss board has more women who also can relate to what you're going through.
That said, CONGRATS on your BFP! I truly hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months! Just take each day at a time, hun. And try your best to enjoy and be thankful for each day with the baby. You'll get there. HUGS!
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July 29th, 2009, 06:39 AM
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Iam so sorry for the loss of your daughter last year. The first pregnancy after any loss is so mixed with bitter sweet emotions. I pray that you have a healthy baby/pregnancy this time. Sometimes just venting your fears/emotions will help you to one day at time enjoy your new miracle. God bless you and yes, I will say a silent prayer for you.
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July 29th, 2009, 06:47 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. Congrats on your BFP and hopefully with time some of the apprehension will fade for you hun.
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July 29th, 2009, 08:34 AM
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i know how you feel. i told my DH if we are lucky enough to get another bfp, i'm not going to rest until the baby is born and fine!!! loss is a very hard thing. it takes away the innocence of pregnancy!! try to relax and enjoy. we can't control what happens, it's in God's hands!! I pray alot!! HUGS
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July 29th, 2009, 09:29 AM
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Definately praying for you and your baby bean!! Praying for a super sticky bean!! A beautiful healthy baby!!!
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July 29th, 2009, 11:03 AM
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Good luck to you and your bean! There is a board for Pregnancy after Loss that you might find helpful. I understand how it's so different to try and stay positive and excited after going through a loss.
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July 29th, 2009, 11:16 AM
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((((hugs))))
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. But I am happy about your pregnancy! Yay! Every pregnancy is different.. I know it's hard to relax.. But that will only help your pregnancy (not stressing.) Good luck and try to take a deep breath..
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July 29th, 2009, 02:39 PM
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i know i will fret with my next one! i will be so scared but i guess this is something that we just need to put in God's hands and pray really hard about. he knows best!
i wish you a sticky bean and a h&h 9 months!
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July 29th, 2009, 03:56 PM
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I really don't know what to say in the way of reassurance, but sending happy and healthy nine month and sticky baby dust your way! CONGRATULATIONS!
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July 29th, 2009, 03:57 PM
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I really don't know what to say in the way of reassurance, but sending happy and healthy nine month and sticky baby dust your way! CONGRATULATIONS!
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July 29th, 2009, 03:57 PM
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I really don't know what to say in the way of reassurance, but sending happy and healthy nine month and sticky baby dust your way! CONGRATULATIONS!
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July 29th, 2009, 05:14 PM
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I'm so sorry for the loss of your little girl, honey.
Congratulations on your pregnancy! I'm praying for a beautiful, healthy baby for you!
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July 30th, 2009, 03:09 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure you are worried I would be too. But there are many ladies here who have graduated and had healthy babies after a loss. So I have faith that it can happen for all of us too. Congratz on you pregnancy and I wish you a happy and healthy 9 months with a beautiful baby to hold and keep.
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