[ablake06]

hi ladies!
i am just curious if anyone has had 2 losses and when you can try again?
i personally think i have low progesterone effects!

both times i seen the baby at 9-10 weeks and both times i had a missed miscarriage at 13 weeks!! knowning that the baby only made it to 11 weeks both times!!

so something is going on! i don't think its me - well i hope not anyways!!!

any success stories? are you crazy to think to try again soo soon? my body is ready - i am ready my husband is more ready than i am!

i know having 2 isnt uncommon and it happens!!

what if i do get pregnant right away without having a period will that be bad?

thanks ladies!

[.:Shortcake:.]

First off welcome. I am very sorry for both of your losses. I myself have had 2 losses. The first one at 13w3d and the second one at 6w and it is very difficult. We were told we could start trying again right away. The only reason they ask you to wait one cycle is to date the pregnancy. If your body is not ready it will not conceive. I also think there is a problem with levels with myself and I just got an appointment with a new doctor for August. If you feel there is a problem and your doctor won't do anything try to find another doctor if you can. Hugs hun and if you have any questions feel free to PM me.

[ablake06]

thanks for responding so quickly! also thank you - i will probably be in contact with you quite often!
i am 25 and my dh is 26!! i really don't think anything is wrong with me!! i hope not!! i can get pregnant and that is a good sign right?

did the doctors tell you anything? what should i ask the doctor the 2nd time around?

i just got done talking to the nurses and they think it maybe my blood b/c im rh- but my husband is rh- as well so there is no way our kid can be positive!!!

im just upset that they didn't check my progesterone! if they only did sooner, maybe i could have took some creams or shots and i wouldn't be in this place right now!!! i do want to try right away! they said 3 months but i think more emotionally than anything!!

i agree, when my body is ready it will accept the pregnancy!! no different than the first!!! i did ask, if they would be upset if i would get pregannt right away and she said no!!!

oh all the possiblities that go through your mind....

[JessP]

Welcome I am so sorry for your loss. I would just ask the doctor what he thinks and suggest what you think and see if he/she is willing to test. Some doctors are ok with that and some aren't. Mine is the type to do what he can within insurance of course LOL. I hope you get some answers from your doctor and are able to have a happy and healthy 9 months soon. Also some doctors have recommendations for when to get pregnant again. I think everyone is different and opinions vary. You have to do what is right for you and your family. Good luck and again welcome.