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July 30th, 2009, 06:11 PM
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You both were such a help to me last week when i was MCing and I wanted to thank you. How are you both holding up?
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July 30th, 2009, 06:25 PM
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Hi sweetie. I am hanging in there. I haven't posted much about my feelings this time around because it is just a repeat of what I went through the last 2 times. I do have to admit that emotionally it is a little easier, but there are moments when I just break down and sob. Physically this was super easy. AF was just 3 days longer for me and tons of clotting and a little more cramping but nothing like my last loss.

How are you doing emotionally? You seem so strong with your loss. Last time I cried nonstop for weeks, gained 15lbs and went into a depression. If it wasn't for Lori and the girls here and the loss board I don't know where I would be in the healing process. How are you feeling physically? I am really sorry you have to go through this. I think we can all understand the pain and heartache.
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July 30th, 2009, 08:55 PM
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Hey hun

I'm doing alright here. Still having random moments of crying and sadness, but I think that's how it will always be. I'll always miss my baby.

I'm trying to decide if DH and I should use.. erm.. protection.. until my first AF arrives since the MC. I'm all done bleeding. It stopped 3 days ago. My biggest fear if I do get pregnant right away is the fact my body still might be in "flush everything out" mode and I lose another baby. I really don't want to lose another baby. I feel emotionally ready to ttc, but would I be physically? Is it safe to start trying again if I'm not bleeding at all anymore and haven't been for 3 days now? DH thinks we should try right away.. What do you think I should do?

Sorry for all the questions.. I'm happy I could be such a help to you. *hugs*
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July 31st, 2009, 07:57 AM
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I just wanted to give all three of you huge Thinking of you.
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August 2nd, 2009, 07:23 PM
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hey ladies, Sorry I was MIA, My DH and I went camping this weekend and it was soooo great to get away from it all. I feel stronger than ever. Physically and mentally. So, i'm just now waiting to O and get AF, so that we can start trying again. The doc said last time that there was no reason to wait, if your body isn't ready to get pg it won't, so back at it again soon. How about you ladies?
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