[~Lynda~]

okay, for those of you who know me, i've been actively ttc for a year and a half with two losses in that time. i am not a tester, i usually wait out AF who usually doesn't disappoint me. I'm 14DPO today and am SCARED TO DEATH to test. I keep thinking well maybe this is it for me, but i don't want to end it with a bfn. It isn't typical for me to make it to 14dpo so i'm hopeful. But i can't bring myself to test. I'm so scared this hopefullness will turn into depression. I havn't been all that active on here lately cause i've been trying to destress. so please please talk me into testing!!!! tomorrow morning? i was going to see how my temp was today, but i couldn't sleep last night. help!!!

[taralyn]

Do you usually get AF before 14 days dpo?? Do you have any symptoms?? I think you should def test!! If you don't get AF today then def tomorrow morning!! I hope this is it for you!!!

[..Penelope..]

I second Tara's questions!

I'm so excited for you! I really, really hope you get your BFP! I felt the same way before I got my BFP - that this COULD be it, but if I got a BFN, it was going to be SO hard to handle.

I can't wait for you to test!!!!!!!!

[Del4]

I just posted in another thread about how with this pregnancy I truly didn't believe I was pregnant and it took me weeks of waiting for AF to arrive to finally take a test. It was dark and very positive and that was what I needed to see. I'm personally glad I waited. I would have spent those weeks FREAKING out at every little twinge and pain, so for me, it was best to wait.

That said, if you want to test, test!!!! I'm totally a POAS pusher, so I can do more than just say test if you need it haha.

Good luck, I so hope this is your month!! I come in here every month to see if you've got a BFP.

[MrsB1227]

i totally understand your reasoning. it is very disappointing to see another bfn. If it were me, I'd wait a day or two and then test. By that time, chances are you are def pg and you will get an unmistakable blaring bfp!

[Kary♥RN]

OK I looked at your chart yesterday.. I didn't want to stalk you..... but I have to say... it is looking good!!!! YOU NEED TO TEST! I can't hold out... I test early knowing I'm going to get a BFN... so that way I'm not disapointed... and than I dont feel the urge to test again and again.. since I know I have already got that big BFN... I am such a stick pusher also... I say test.... Hopefully you can get that BFP!!

[Magicaledelishus]

Testttttttt lady, you can do it

[KDD]

Stick with the plan Lynda. Wait until tomorrow and test if your temps are still up! You know I'm an anti-tester so I'll always preach waiting! Your chart looks great and I have high hopes for tomorrow's test results!

[Kary♥RN]

Have we talked you in to testing???

[JessP]

What were the results? Did you get a bfp? Oh gosh test already so we all can celebrate with you. I don't know anything about the charts only body signs for ovulation and stuff. If you didn't test then do it, you know you wanna . Ok good luck and let us know.

[Cmommy]

So did you test yet?????

[brandimomof2]

Hi Lynda, I hope you get your BFP. I understand not wanting to test but at the same time really wanting to. If you feel you should give it a couple more days then do that. Me personally I couldnt hold out and I would test.

LEt me know your results. IM me. :-)

[Loving6]

I wanted to wish you luck

[megal40]

Hi hun, Another POAS pusher here! I say test in the a.m. I will cross my fingers and look for a post with great news first thing in the morning.

GOOD LUCK!

[Kary♥RN]

Oh now you are just driving us nuts!!!!! HAHAHAThe suspence is killing me!!! Update us!!

[~Lynda~]

hi gals, still no AF - i haven't had any symptoms but tonight my bbs feel kinda sore. i'm gonna probably test tomorrow morning unless my temp takes a dive. thanks for all the replies!!!! i'm very excited but very very nervous at the same time!!!! wish me luck and i will update!!!! sorry i'm keeping you in suspense i'm just scared to end the dream!!!!

[MrsB1227]

sending you tons and tons of !!!!!!!!!!!!!!