[~~~Sara~~~]

Hi ladies, I hope everyone is doing well.

I am not sure when we will be TTC again at this time. I thought we would right away after our second loss, but I think maybe because I carried the baby longer, I had more complications, my cycle is still not normal and life has gotten hectic so DH said he thinks we should wait. This devastated me, to type it even brings tears to my eyes, but I know he's right.

I guess I feel like being pregnant will fix all the pain of our losses, but of course it wont. I want another baby so bad, it's so hard to wait.

But anyway, we are waiting for some things to happen and for my body to tell me it's ready again.

I'll be checking in on you ladies if it's okay, I just don't want anyone to feel weird b/c we aren't TTC right now, we think November will be the month to start trying again.

Hugs to all of you!

[Kary♥RN]

Sara Please don't just check in.. STAY! It it is ok to still be on this board and be in the waiting part of your TTCAL journey. As long as YOU feel comfortable being here. We want you here! November is not long... it is only 4 cycles.. Let us help you count down. Let us help you though this part of your journey.. HUGS!

[.:Shortcake:.]

Hugs hun! Please stay. Some of us are waiting right now too. We are all at different stages in our Journey and it helps having people there that understand.

[farasha]

Oh Sara! I know exactly how you feel. After this second loss, my body is completely wacky... you can tell by my ticker below. I don't know why it has to be this way. It's just not fair. DH and I were discussing putting things off (at least not actively ttc) until my body returns to normal too. My mental clock was also putting that around late Fall. So unless an accident happens, I'll be most likely waiting with you. Please don't go too far. We can help the time pass together (and with the help of the whole board!)

[mlyster]

I agree Sara. If you feel comfortable with it you should stick around. TTCAL is a tough journey and we all have times we stop trying (Kary's last cycle for example) for one reason or another. But we are all here to support you through your wait if you want it!

[JessP]

I am not actively TTC right now, in fact we are avoiding at all cost. But I love seeing all the success and cheering people on to test. You should stick around. I hope November comes quickly for you.

[Kary♥RN]

Michelle.... I didn't even to think to use myself as an example.. HAHA.. see that when happens when you post after working 2 days straight with only 4 1/2 sleep... I will try not to post first thing in the am..

Sara I hope you do stay... since like Michelle said I took a cycle off due to insurance reasons.. HUGS!

[Celena]

I'm sorry Sarah... I'm late here so I don'y know everything that has happened to you, but I am very sorry for your losses. I'm sorry to hear your cycle isn't normal yet and you two have decided to hold off for a little bit. Who knows your DH might change his mind, your body might get back to normal quicker, situations may get better and the hecticness calm... Keep your head held high, you're strong and you WILL make it! (and we'll be here for you thru it all)

Life is hectic period... that's what makes it a life ;-)

[Oreobaby]

I'm Marci...I don't know you at all, but I hope that you do stick around. I'm not sure how long I will be waiting to TTC...I am currently only planning on waiting one cycle, since I just miscarried, but I have no idea what the fertility dr. will tell me when I see him in September. I hope that you stick around, and we can all help eachother out!!

[~~~Sara~~~]

You girls are so sweet, I'm not leaving, I just am not here as much, it's tough sometimes, but the wonderful thing is you all know that and understand, so it's also a great place to be.

I do love seeing the BFP's just as a reminder that we CAN graduate and we CAN succeed.
I honestly think my DH knows best and I am overrun with emotions, this break has been really good for us. Hopefully by November I'll know my cycle like the back of my hand

[~InHisHands~]

I know how hard it is to wait!