[JessP]

I don't know why but I can't bring myself to just say TTC #3, I feel like it should be #4 because baby poff was baby #3. Does that seem strange? I guess I feel like if I say TTC #3 I am forgetting about baby poff and I could never do that.

[Celena]

No that is not silly at all, but you're NEVER going to forget Poff!

So saying TTC#3 doesn't mean you've forgotten the little life that was inside of you, but it just needed a new, stronger, healthier body to come thru

[Oreobaby]

I actually asked this question of the TTC #1 girls at chat last Tuesday, because I, like you felt weird saying TTC #1...cause technically, I did that already!! And even though baby J was only with me for a very short 11 weeks...I will never forget!! I totally understand where you are coming from, and you should do what you feel comfortable with. I will continue to say TTC #1 until I am holding that baby in my arms. That is just my personal decission, you will need to make your own.

[mlyster]

totally a personal decision but I understand not saying TTC#1. I am not saying a number in my TTC (not out loud or in my head) because I agree TTC#1 does not feel right... however neither does TTC#3 (since I have no living children).

[~InHisHands~]

I completely agree with all of you! I've been debating if/when I get pg if I'm going to have a blinkie "Pg with #". Even now when asked, I have 2 children... one here with me, one in heaven.