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August 5th, 2009, 11:14 AM
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Guess i should of posted on this board and not just the TTC board.
Hi Guys.
I am just registering here today. Have been reading through your post.
Some history on me. 29 years old, living in Ireland. Got pregnant three times while using BC so have never been down the TTC road. Miscarried in 2004 - miscarried twins last october - miscarried 25th june this year. No kids.
I am not actively TTC, my partner wants to know nothing about it but we are not using BC anymore and just DTD as we usually would. Have started B12 injections (since MC) as was always on them but they stopped them and i kicked up a fuss as i read something online about it could lead to MC so i said what harm could it do so i have been having them weekly and no monthly. Drs advised me to to get pregnant as they are sending me to a fertility specialist but i know all my bloods have come back normal and doctor prepared for me to hear there is just not reason for the miscarriages.
I am on CD14 now, was on a weeks holidays so was DTD a lot last week but not so much this week as haven't seen much of each other so dunno what days would of been best if we were going by DTDed around ovulation. Days DTD were CD 3,4,6,7,8,9,10,11,13 and this morning. Now some of those days we DTD 2/3 times as we were on holidays but i have read you can DTD too much, well if his highness on rations and told him we needed to cut down i know he would look at me as if i was mental.
Wont be doing the deed tonight which is probably when we should be?
Anyway i'll be on the 2ww but i won't hold out much hope. Will enjoy being here and hopefully reading everyone else good news this month, and to have someone to wait with.
On all previous pregnancies it looked like i got pregnant on about day 12 (only DTD once on one and twice on last)
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August 5th, 2009, 11:49 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: So. California
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I am sorry for your losses, and wishing you the best in your future TTC!
I am Sara, have one special needs son and 2 losses, hoping for a 2nd child some day!
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August 5th, 2009, 12:09 PM
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Mom of 4
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I'm sorry to hear about your losses! I hope that you do get that BFP soon. Welcome!!
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August 5th, 2009, 02:10 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am so sorry for your losses... Welcome to board, I hope your stay here is short and you get that BFP soon.
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August 5th, 2009, 02:36 PM
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Lovin life and family
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Welcome to the board and so sorry for your losses. I hope you get a bfp really soon. Sounds like DTD isn't a problem for you guys  .
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August 5th, 2009, 04:32 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Welcome to the board. I'm so sorry for your losses! 
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August 5th, 2009, 07:35 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Im sorry for all of your losses, and welcome you here with a big hug! Im Lori and hoping to have one more little one with my new DH. I hope your stay is short and you get the BFP that you so deserve.
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August 6th, 2009, 03:25 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Australia
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Welcome. I'm sorry for your losses. I hope you get your BFP soon. I would say you've got your bases well covered if you O'ed on cd12. 
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August 6th, 2009, 05:41 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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 I'm very sorry to hear about your losses. I think that your BD timing was good. I know many women who got pg from only DTD once during their cycle!
Good luck to you!
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August 7th, 2009, 08:43 AM
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Happy to be a SAHM!
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So sorry for your losses.
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August 7th, 2009, 08:52 AM
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Happy to be a SAHM!
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So sorry for your losses.
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August 11th, 2009, 01:44 PM
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AF is not due for another 9 days but this is what i got this morning??
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August 11th, 2009, 04:02 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Alberta, Canada
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I am not sure what to say 9 days early is pretty early! Did you test after your miscarriage to make sure all the HCG was out of your system... if you did and it was then CONGRATS looks like a BFP
My cousin told me she had a 3 week cycle the cycle right after her miscarriage (and she was pg that cycle) so it could be that you have shorter cycles after your miscarriages (mine are longer usually but everyone is different).
Test again in the morning - we LOVE to see BFP pictures keep getting darker.
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August 11th, 2009, 04:06 PM
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aka NZ-Emma
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welcome to JM & the TTCAL board. I'm Emma (25) & I have daughter - Gaby (2y9m). I've experienced 4 first trimester losses, including an ectopic pregnancy in 2007... my partner & I have just started TTC our first together - I'm on CD16/3DPO
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August 11th, 2009, 04:50 PM
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Yes my levels were monitored after m/c. HCG went back to not pregnant on blood tests. Monitored all the way down. Just weird when im only CD20. Ill do one next week and see then.
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August 11th, 2009, 07:06 PM
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Proud JM hostess
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WOW, that looks pretty positive! A  how neat!
I'm sorry to hear about your losses! I hope you are doing well welcome to TTCAL!
Definitly keep us posted... have you considered calling your doctor about what you see on your test?
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August 11th, 2009, 09:19 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Australia
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Hello and welcome to the board I am sorry for your losses. I was going to tell you I think your in with a good chance but that pretty BFP proves it congrats!!!
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August 12th, 2009, 03:25 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Tasmania
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Welcome, sorry for your losses. It looks like a BFP to me so congratulations! To get a line so early has to be a good sign.
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