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August 6th, 2009, 11:03 AM
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I'M SO CONFUSED!!!!
Anything is possible I guess.... I just talked to the nurse at my doctors office and don't know what to make of what the nurse said. The bloodwork just came back and the doc hasn't had a look at it and he's going to NEED TO after what she told me!!!
The nurse asked me if I was supposed to be PREGNANT AGAIN?! (screeeech, woah, WHAT?!)
I was like, um, I don't know! I thought I O'd, but the doc wasn't so sure about it... meanwhile I've begun to shake like an earthquake in San Diego!
So, after I stop the gibberish coming from my mouth I asked her why? She says my hcg is going UP and is at 135, that I'm PREGNANT???!!! WTH??!! While I was on the phone with her I used the last dollar store pg test I had and sure enough within less than a minute came up +. Meanwhile she's dictating in a memo to him what I've asked and said, should I follow up today, tomorrow while I get an u/s now? WHAT WHAT WHAT???!!! I told her I needed to talk to my DH she said she's going to rush this to him. Apparently he hadn't gotten the results and they had just come in from what she said.
I text DH and told him to call me ASAP... He called me and told him what was going on, he was just as discombobblated as I am... then after we get off the phone he text me 5 minutes later he just puked and it must be sympathy m/s. Oh I felt bad, I scared him... he called me and said it wasn't bad just that he's shocked and doesn't want me going thru this aweful rollercoaster ride of emotions anymore. (me neither!)
So I dunno what to think??? I'm SCARED and EXCITED... I've been talking to my bean if it's in there saying I hope my body does better this time if it's for real. I begged God to protect the widdle bean and I know that He was last time even tho I may not have thought so.
I'm scared and happy... HELP!?!?
Here's the tests I took today....
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August 6th, 2009, 11:14 AM
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OH MY GOODNESS!!! What was your blood level before today? Did you have it checked after the m/c? I've known people that were pregnant with twins but didn't know it, lost one through m/c and later realized that the other twin was still there and growing...anything is possible. I hope it's all wonderful news for you! I will pray that everything is alright. Keep us posted.
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August 6th, 2009, 11:20 AM
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Wow.. I don't know exactly what is going on, but it does sound like you very well may be pregnant again! Wow! I hope so! And I hope it's a sticky bean!!! KUP!
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August 6th, 2009, 11:29 AM
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I'm freaking terrified, yesterday I had some red bleeding at dr's office and had some here today on my tp too along with a little clot. It could very well be left overs as my cervix is high now.
I'm going to call them, I can't wait any longer... I'm not feeling super positive as I'm still have spotting n some reddness. Terrified I'm going thru this again!
Send me some sticky dust!
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August 6th, 2009, 12:34 PM
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Celena, did you m/c a week ago? If so, was it natural or d&c? I only ask because if it were natural, you could still have HCG in your body, and it could go up a little if you have retained tissue left(sorry for the choice of words). When did you O?
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August 6th, 2009, 12:36 PM
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WOW.... I don't even know what to say. Were your levels 0? Or did you get a neg pregnancy test.. before? Please call us when you hear from the Doc. I hope they order you an US and more B/W to make sure those Beta's keep rising! And I hope the bleeding stops.. My thoughts and prayers are with your little bean! HUGS
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August 6th, 2009, 02:51 PM
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hate to be a party pooper when you're getting hopeful, but please be very cautious in this situation. i thought i miscarried with my 3rd loss, only to find my levels rising the following week and had to have emergency surgery for an ectopic. make sure your doc follows you very closely so nothing worse happens.
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August 6th, 2009, 03:10 PM
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UPDATE #1
Ok so I ended up calling the dr's office because I couldn't STAND waiting...
She pulled me up and went to talk to the dr n his nurse, they're having me come in tomorrow am for more beta bloodwork then going from there. The nurse said she's sorry I'm going thru so much and she's praying for the positive,, also that I need to be on bed rest for right now n take it easy.
UPDATE #2
My doctor just called he's confused! He thinks it could be several things...
1) I had my loss and it is an ectopic pregnancy with the fluctuation of #'s
7-22 hcg 178 (ER), 7-24 am105 (Ob), pm74 (ER), 7-27 (Ob) hcg 70's and  pg test 7-31, 8-05 (Ob) hcg 135
He said their labs are different, the ER n Ob's office
2) I had my loss and have a cell ball multiplying trying to implant??? WTH???
3) possibility of retained tissue (BUT my numbers were dropped & the  hpt 7-31, how could they go up when it's the placenta that produces the hcg???)
4) that I O'd and am newly pg (he just isn't sold, convinced of this one)
If it's ectopic or retained tissue then he wants to give me methotextrate
I asked about an u/s, but he said they may not be able to see anything right now... let's get the beta and go from there.
GEEEZ!! I'm so overrit... how can he explain to me about why all the sudden I'm starting to have pg symptoms again too that had totally disappeared by last week, week n half ago. I just want to go to sleep and get this day over with already.
SEND ME YOUR thought & prayers, PLEASE! Sticky dust  baby stay!
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August 6th, 2009, 03:13 PM
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Oh hunnie please update us asap! I pray that you have a sticky bean in your belly
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August 6th, 2009, 03:13 PM
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August 6th, 2009, 03:14 PM
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I hope it works out for you in the best way possibly. I agree with the pp to be closely followed by your doc but I will think positive thoughts for you!!
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August 6th, 2009, 03:14 PM
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I hope it works out for you in the best way possibly. I agree with the pp to be closely followed by your doc but I will think positive thoughts for you!!
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August 6th, 2009, 04:13 PM
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Wow! What a rollercoaster! I really hope that this is a new pregnancy, and that you get your sticky bean!!! You are in my T&P!
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August 6th, 2009, 04:16 PM
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Sending you positive thoughts and all the sticky dust I can spare!
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August 6th, 2009, 09:09 PM
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Hi ladies!
Well I've been weighing the information, not too heavily tho and I'm not SUPER stressed about it.
I don't feel a gut feeling like something is wrong like I did last time I found out I was pregnant... It's all up in the air right now and the only thing I can do is wait. I have the bloodwork in the am tomorrow and will be getting it back same day, not sure how FAST it will be. I know at the hospital it's pretty quick. Not sure how ready I am for anything at this point, ya know, it's been a bumpy ride and the news I recieved today was nothing short of shocking. I'm hoping for GOOD news of course, but I know the posibility of it being bad is just as much there.
I do thank and appreciate your insight, opinions, knowledge, compassion and support!!! Thank you!!!
I did POAS again tonight after 8pm, it was definitly darker than this am's urine... maybe it's something positive? (besides the  ) So here it is...


BTW, I stopped spotting for the moment... the last couple times I wiped nothing! That was a surprise
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August 7th, 2009, 02:58 AM
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I'm thinking of you and really hope it's a BFP and not your body playing tricks on you. Good luck!
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August 7th, 2009, 03:06 AM
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I'm thinking of you and really hope it's a BFP and not your body playing tricks on you. Good luck!
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August 7th, 2009, 03:06 AM
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I'm thinking of you and really hope it's a BFP and not your body playing tricks on you. Good luck!
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August 7th, 2009, 03:27 AM
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I am thinking of you and hope it is a real BFP and not your body playing tricks on you. Good luck!
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August 7th, 2009, 04:01 AM
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Celena I am sorry you have to go through the waiting game you are in my prayers Goodluck hun and keep us posted I hope this is your sticky bean!!
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