[Alpha_allie1010]

So today at lunch my sister and her husband announced that they are trying for baby #3! With her first she got prego on her first cycle and on her second cycle with her 2nd.....if she has her 3rd before I even get my first I am going to be heart broken! It is hard to be excited for her because I am a little bitter....


PS:Here are my adorable nephews







taken with my phone

[.:Shortcake:.]

Hugs hun! I know how you feel. My sister and her fiance are talking about trying for #4! Grr all I'm asking for right now is one.

[Trish36]

Hugs! I know it's so hard to hear when someone close to you is or is trying to get pregnant. Especially if you are trying for #1. I can only imagine now what my SIL went through. Me having 3 kids without any problems and her trying for over 10 years for #1.

[Kary♥RN]

Oh Allison... I know how hard it is... My SIL hasn't even given birth (that will be time this month)... If she would even try right away.. and I'm still trying for #1 with my dh... I will scream! I hope your BFP comes soon.. I have a feeling it will be soon for you! HUGS.

[Alpha_allie1010]

thanks everyone for your support!

[JessP]

AH that stinks hun I hope you get your bfp soon then you guys can be beautiful pregnant ladies together .

[jensma]

I'm sorry. I kinda know how you feel. I hope you get a BFP soon!

[Alpha_allie1010]

i would LOVE to be prego togher and both have little girls!

[Loving6]

I know the feeling.I announced I was pregnant,then my SIL has started NTNP,but is buying pregnancy clothes on ebay,so I think she is really trying.I will die if she gets pregnant before me,especially since my loss in May.

[Celena]

Allison, I'm really sorry to hear this.... It's ookay to be resentful and upset. To be honest I had been a little of my friend who found out the same time I did that she was pg (due the same day, etc...) It's totally normal from what I've seen and heard (my aunt went thru the same thing years ago, same feelings, same) So we're all dealing with it in our own way and sometimes it is just down right hard.

I hope you feel better and get that BFP soon

[momof6lopez]

I know the feeling you are having, and ironicly it is from the other point of view. I watched my sister have so many fertility problems during her 20's and early thirty's, while I just kept having babies. She had her first dd at age 18, got married at 20 and tried for 14mo, finally got her ds. For her two babies, I had 2. Then all the problems began for her. She went on to have three of four losses over the course of 6yrs, one being a tubal which resulted in the removal of the tube. Then many cysts which ended her up back on b/c pills for about 6 months to get her regular again. I had another baby while she was going through all of this and finally she had her third about 6yrs of trying for her. I became pregnant when she got pregnant with her dd at same exact time. I could not even tell her I was pg, until after we found out her baby had a heart beat. She was so mad at me for getting pg at the same time, because she was afraid of another loss and having to witness another pregnancy for me. We had our daughters 10 days apart in the end, and through the whole pregnancy she was a bit timid with me, becasue she couldn't shake the fear.

Its so hard when its our sisters that we are going through these things with. I remember praying to god and telling him, "if her baby does not have a heart beat, give her mine please". I never told her these thoughts, as I felt it was just to personal. Maybe your sister feels the same way

I'm sorry, I know just how rough it is. It seems like all my friend have just started TTC and are getting BFP within 2 cycles. Just not fair.