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August 10th, 2009, 05:09 PM
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Well ladies, things have been CRAZY over here. DBF and I broke up for a bit I moved out and then found out I was pregnant on Saturday!!!! Took 5 hpt's, all positive...went to the doc, urine test negative  Got bloodwork done...hcg 49...took another urine test at the doc today came back very faint (after drinking a huge bottle of water) so did bloodwork again...we'll find out tomorrow if it's doubled. I am about 8 days late.
So after TWO YEARS of trying I get pregnant when we get in a huge fight and break up/move out. God works in mysterious ways. I guess we were meant to be together right now.
I apologize for disappearing for the past month or two. New job and life has been nuts. But I guess I am back if you'll have me 
How are you all of you?
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August 10th, 2009, 05:18 PM
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WOW. First, shame on you for disappearing! Kidding.. had to say that. I've been wondering about you!!!
I'm sorry about you and DBF, but I truly hope things work out over the next few weeks. It's funny how life works out like this. Have you told him about it?
How is the new job??? Is your previous little munchkin attending there so you get to see him?
As for the BFP - HOLY @(&#$*&!!!! Congrats!!! Don't disappear again! I want an update!
I feel like this reply was full of a bunch of mixed exclamation points... you were missed! I'm happy you posted!
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August 10th, 2009, 05:22 PM
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Sorry to hear about you and bf, I hope things work out. Congrats on the bfp!! H&h 9 months!!!
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August 10th, 2009, 05:23 PM
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I did check on you and the girls have been emailing me! Shame on me!
Yes I told him. I felt weird the past few days so took a IC test on Saturday and it didn't show anything, threw it in the garbage and then looked later and lo and behold there was a pink line...called him right away and we went into the doctor after I took 2 FRER's...
The new job is great, busy, long hours and yes, Jack is in my class. He's a HANDFUl there. He was spoiled and it's all my fault 
I won't disappear. Posts might be few and far between b/c I am staying with a friend from work and figuring out the whole moving back in with DBF situation. Wow life is weird!
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August 10th, 2009, 05:27 PM
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Wow Erika!! Isn't it crazy the way things work?? Congrats on the BFP and I hope things work out the way they are supposed to. We missed you!!
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August 10th, 2009, 05:39 PM
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Erika I was just thinking about you yesterday. Wondering what had happened to you. How could you abandon us like that? Kidding!! CONGRATS on your BFP!!!!! I know the timing could have been better, but none the less it's awesome that you are finally pregnant. Hope you have a H&H 9 months and keeping my fingers crossed that the numbers are doubling!! When will you be due?
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August 10th, 2009, 06:15 PM
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wow Erika - its amazing how things work out... i hope it all works out for the best *hugs*
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August 10th, 2009, 06:44 PM
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ERIKA!!! Kary and I were just talking about you not too long ago hoping you would come back and let us know that you were ok! Congrats!
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August 10th, 2009, 07:55 PM
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YAY!!! congrats!
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August 10th, 2009, 08:00 PM
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Wow Erika!!! Things do happen in the strangest of ways!
I am so excited for you - lots and lots of sticky dust and I hope that you and BF can figure things out, whatever that may be! Congrats!!!!
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August 10th, 2009, 08:02 PM
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Hi Erika! Wow! What a whirlwind that you've been living! Congratulations on the BFP!
I hope that things calm down for you so you can have a peaceful 9 months.
Welcome back!
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August 10th, 2009, 08:15 PM
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Congratz on the BFP! I wish you a happy and healthy 9 months.
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August 10th, 2009, 09:42 PM
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Just wanted to say congrats on the BFP! Lots of hugs as you move forward.
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August 11th, 2009, 03:23 AM
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Hugs hun! I am so so happy for you. And I'm glad your back. Sending you lots of super sticky vibes and I hope things work out for the best between you and DBF.
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August 11th, 2009, 06:23 AM
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Erika, I think about you every time I am on JM. It sounds like things are crazy for you right now. I am going to be optimistic for you and say that even in marriage fights happen and it doesn't mean things are done with BF. I am sure you guys will work things out. Do what is best for you and of course that little one you have on the way!  Keep us posted! Glad to hear from you....
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August 11th, 2009, 07:10 AM
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 for the big fight but I hope it all works out!!! Congrats on the BFP! God really does work in mysterious ways, doesn't he?
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August 11th, 2009, 07:17 AM
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Oh sweetie! I'm so happy for you! I hope everything works out with DBF!! Email me if you need anything at all!!
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August 11th, 2009, 07:33 AM
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Congratulations!!! I'm wishing you a happy and healthy nine months. And, I'm also hoping that you and DBF can work things out. thinking of you!
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August 11th, 2009, 07:51 AM
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wow that is truly a wild story!!! congrats on the bfp!! god does have mysterious ways!!!! KUP on you and baby dust to you!!
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August 11th, 2009, 09:08 AM
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HOLY Erika! You sure do know how to make a re-appearance sweetie!! Congrats on the BFP...sorry about the challenges with DBF...i hope everything works out esp with a little one on the way!!!! When's your EDD?
I'm so freaking excited for you!!
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