[mrsissa]

So I've had two losses in a row and meanwhile one of my sisters had a baby, another sister is due to have a baby girl in October and then a few months ago I found out my sister in law was pregnant as well. All of this can be hard because you want to be happy but experience a little jealousy at times. Well my husband just told me that my sister in law lost her baby. I immediately started crying. None of us want anyone else to experience what we have...we know how hard it is. It's just bringing so many emotions back up for me.

[momof6lopez]

Im so sorry, my SIL lost her baby 1 wk. after I did. It is so hard, all these emotions flying around. But it does put things in prespective for us.

[Celena]

Mrsissa...

I expierenced the same thing... of course all the jealousy, anger and deep sadness even tho I didn't mean to. Well my aunt had sent me a comment "when are you due pg woman. My DD is pg and is Xwks along " I was so so sad, she didn't know what happened so I told her.

Not even 2-2.5 weeks later she sends me a very long letter saying my cousin lost her baby I lost it, I still lose it. I admit I was jealous, I didn't want to hear about her and then I felt absolutly AWEFUL when I had gotten that letter.

My cousin and I have been talking allot, she's doing pretty well the more we've talked and the more she's talked with others n her doc.

I'm very sorry about your SIL and how it made the flood gates of devastation open up on you all over. Just when we think we're doing a little better, healing and then BAM! we're knocked down again.

I'm very sorry and I hope that you both can help each other thru this... it can sorta be healing for yourself to help her thru it

KUP and I hope you feel better SOON!!

[Kary♥RN]

I am so sorry... It is so hard to hear about the losses... or Loss of someone in your family, excpecially after you have a loss.. HUGS to you all

[Trish36]

HUGS!!!!! I know how you feel. My sister has been struggling ttc her 2nd for over 1 year now and she finally got her BFP a couple of months ago to lose it at 10weeks. Very similar situation the way it happend with me. I so wish no one had to experience a loss ever. At least your SIL has someone she can talk to who understands her situation.

[mrsissa]

Thanks you guys. I am feeling a little better today and I do hope I can be of support to her since I know how it feels. I know I would have felt much more alone if it wasn't for this board.

[Celena]

I'm glad you feel a little better... that if it wasn't for this board and all of you wonderful ladies I would need a padded room right about now!

[JessP]

I am so sorry for you and for your SIL. That is so hard. Lots of hugs and support hun.