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August 24th, 2009, 05:26 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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So I am 5 weeks today but I started spotting and getting crampy I went to emergency they did an internal and said my cervix was closed and said they couldn't see fresh blood which I find weird due to the spotting I had so they checked my hcg levels they were 85 for five weeks they should be between 50 and 500 so it's not enough to tell them what is happening (they don't have any other bloods to compare to so I have to wait until Wednesday to check them again to see if they had gone up and they gave me a anti D injection because I am at high risk of m/c again  I thought I should let you all know I will update on Wednesday when I find out more I am so scared and sad right now I don't think I can go through this again!!!
Well my betas are down to 62 from 85 the hospital sent me home saying I was aborting(what a horrible word) I went to my gp as I havent had alot of bleeding he is sending me for an u/s this arvo he said it could be a number of things like a twin or an etopic he said we really need an u/s so I will update you all when I know.Thankyou very much for all your support and kind words.
Last edited by charm; August 25th, 2009 at 08:18 PM.
Reason: Update
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August 24th, 2009, 06:19 AM
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Iam so sorry that things cannot be normal for you. I wish you the best and pray for some good news on Wed.
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August 24th, 2009, 07:07 AM
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Originally Posted by charm
I am so scared and sad right now I don't think I can go through this again!!!
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 Charm I'm so sorry honey, I'm in tears for you right now!!! I don't want you to go thru that again either, no lady should, ever!!! However, you're a STRONG WOMAN and you can get thru this stressful time, please remind yourself how STRONG YOU ARE... this will NOT break you, but make you stronger!!! It hurts so bad and is very devastating, but look at yourself you made it thru rough, hard, bad times in the past... so you can get thru this stressful time now!!!
Just know we're all here for you and PRAY TO GOD that your levels double!!!!
GOOD LUCK HONEY  we're here for you!!!
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August 24th, 2009, 08:40 AM
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NO way Charm....no way will you be coming back here! We won't let you !!!! HUGS honey!!! I am keeping all my fingers and all my toes crossed that your numbers double and that your little bean is healthy and keeps on baking. As hard as it is, please stay positive.
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August 24th, 2009, 08:58 AM
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Charm, HUGS.... I am praying you won't be joining us again. Bleeding is common in early pregnancy.... Are you still cramping? I would just hold on... We are all thinking of you and your little bean.... HUGS... HUGS... HUGS
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August 24th, 2009, 12:09 PM
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I am so sorry sweetie...I am praying that everything is ok...and the spotting is just normal for you!!!
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August 24th, 2009, 02:20 PM
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Oh sweetie Bleeding can be totally normal in pg, as scary as it is. I wish you didn't have to go through this scare but I need to believe that everything will be fine and we will stay belly buddies
I am thinking and praying your numbers double. Sending you all the *stickyvibes* in the world hun.
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August 24th, 2009, 02:35 PM
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I'm so sorry hun that you have to go through this torment!!! It's not fair!! BIG HUGS.. I'm thinking of you and hoping everything will be just fine. Hang in there!
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August 24th, 2009, 03:22 PM
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~ hang in there little one ~
sending you lots of *hugs*
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August 24th, 2009, 03:38 PM
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I'm so sorry you are going through this. Its crappy Big Hugs!
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August 24th, 2009, 04:03 PM
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I'm so sorry you're going through this, honey. I am hoping and praying that baby is ok! Thinking of you.
Last edited by ..Penelope..; August 24th, 2009 at 04:12 PM.
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August 24th, 2009, 04:34 PM
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Charm - Hugs babe.
It is such a scary time being pg again after suffering m/c - you analyse everything, from the slightest twinge to feeling your boobs all the time etc..... I hope that this bubba sticks and it was just an anomally. The fact that it was 'old' blood is a positive sign.
My cousin had bleeding up until approx. 12-14 weeks through her pg & she has a h&h dd. Fingers crossed for you & I will be back on Wednesday for your update. xx
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August 24th, 2009, 04:42 PM
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charm. I'm so sorry you have to go through this stress. I'm praying you get great news tomorrow and your little one is snuggled in tight. FWIW I had spotting at 6 weeks and everything is fine. Take care of yourself hun and KUP.
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August 24th, 2009, 04:57 PM
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I'm hoping everything is OK and I hope your numbers look great at your next appointment. KUP! Thinking of you!
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August 24th, 2009, 09:45 PM
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oh no! I hope it was just some one off spotting and it all ends up ok in the end. *hugs*
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August 24th, 2009, 09:56 PM
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Thanks everyone for your beautiful support the bleeding had stopped but now I seem to have brown muck sorry for TMI I am trying my best to stay positive.
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August 25th, 2009, 12:27 AM
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August 25th, 2009, 02:44 AM
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Hello Charm honey, I missed your BFP as I haven't been over here too much, it's very exciting and try to stay positive, I really hope it works out for you and bub xoxox
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August 25th, 2009, 03:35 AM
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I think you should be as positive as possible, the fact it has stopped is brillianT!!!!!
Keep us posted and if you need anything let me know...
xxoo
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August 25th, 2009, 04:09 AM
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Oh hunnie I am praying for you and your little bean. Sending you loads of sticky dust. Try to stay positive!
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