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August 26th, 2009, 12:21 AM
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I went for my u/s today they found a large abnormal sack and no embryo so I have passed that but I still have retained product sorry for tmi I want to thank everyone so much for your support. My gp has been great he wants to do a heap of tests to see what is happening and he is trying to get me into a gyno for a laproscopy so see If I do have endo he also said if I have to go to emergency to get them to call him which is good I am going to go and rest now I am exhausted it's been a big day.

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August 26th, 2009, 12:31 AM
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Charm,

I am sorry terribly sorry for your & your family's loss. I prayed that this little one was a keeper, but sadly not to be this time.

Your GP sounds like a great support, I hope that you get some answers to why this is happening again. I will be online tomorrow arvo if you need to talk or pm me.

Please take care and rest, not just physically, but emotionally.

Huge hugs hun, I don't know what else to say.

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August 26th, 2009, 01:33 AM
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Charm im so sorry. My heart is breaking for you both. xxoo
I wish this wasnt happening to you.
Im so glad your gp has been so good.

Let me know if i can do anything.
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August 26th, 2009, 02:26 AM
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Oh Charm, my heart is just breaking for you, I've been thinking of you all day and praying everything would be ok.

I am so, so sorry. I have been there and wouldn't wish the pain on anyone. I am glad your GP has been so good and you are having tests done. I think having a lap is a good idea, just to rule anything out. Endo could be the reason it has taken you so long to conceive in the past.

There is nothing else I can say other than I am thinking of you and wish you didn't have to go through this

Take care of yourself honey and hold your DH and children close.

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August 26th, 2009, 03:01 AM
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sorry to hear hun, Sorry i missed you on msn this afternoon too.

are you going to have a d&c or just let the remaining tissue come out when ready? again, so so sorry to hear you are going through this again.

I hope the tests are able to give you some answers x
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August 26th, 2009, 03:03 AM
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August 26th, 2009, 03:22 AM
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Charm I did not want to open this. I am so sorry. This just isn't fair. Huge hugs for you and your family. Your all in my thoughts and prayers.
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August 26th, 2009, 03:50 AM
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Oh Charm this is horrible... I am so so so so sorry. Big big hugs. I truly hope they find an answer for you soon. It just isn't fair!!!
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August 26th, 2009, 04:09 AM
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Oh Charm, I am so sorry for your loss. I am so very sorry.
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August 26th, 2009, 04:20 AM
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Charm- Im so so sorry I saw the title and I didn't want to open it. I dont know what to say, this juat isn't fair Im just so extremely sorry that you have to go through this again. Hang in there sweety and hold your DH so close again Im really sorry.
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August 26th, 2009, 05:42 AM
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HUGS! I hate seeing things like this - why can't we just get a break around here. So sorry to hear you are going through this again. I hope the testing comes to some conclusions for you.
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August 26th, 2009, 06:02 AM
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So sorry for this to happen again. Your in my thoughts and prayers today.
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August 26th, 2009, 06:12 AM
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Charm, honey...I'm so sorry you are going through this again. I really was hoping to hear good news. This is so not fair!!! HUGS!!!!! PM me if you want to talk.
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August 26th, 2009, 06:46 AM
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HUGS HUGS and more HUGS!!! i'm so very sorry for your loss hun!!!!
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August 26th, 2009, 09:34 AM
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CHARM!!!! I'm so sorry the news wasn't good and I'm so sorry that you're going thru a loss right now, I prayed that everything would work out for the best!!! Take it easy and take your nap, we're all here thinking about you and hope that things get looked into to get some answers. Really hope that there's nothing wrong and it is a one time unexplained loss... no one ever wants to go thru that and I am sorry you are right now. All of our hearts have sunk with the bad news and just pray you can get thru this strong and on TOP!
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August 26th, 2009, 09:53 AM
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Oh no.. I'm so sorry! I do hope it's a fluke thing and that there's nothing wrong. I'm praying for you and your family. *hugs*
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August 26th, 2009, 12:39 PM
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Charm I am so sorry. I am super glad your doctor is being great and going to order lots of tests to find out what is going on. Sounds like he is a very proactive doctor. Lots of hugs and support hun.
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August 26th, 2009, 01:33 PM
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Oh, I am so very sorry. I hope that you can at least get some answers now with the further testing. Take care of yourself.
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August 26th, 2009, 04:34 PM
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I am so sorry! I hope that the testing will lead to answers that can be easily addressed! Take care of yourself.
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August 26th, 2009, 06:01 PM
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Oh Charm, I'm sorry. I hope they figure it out. Big hugs!!!
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