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August 26th, 2009, 06:21 PM
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I have known that one of DH ee's has been pregnant with for months now. She was running around the pharmacy the day she poas. I have been holding in my emotions each time I see she as she gets bigger and bigger and shares TMI in conversation. I'm happy for her and that her pregnancy is going so well. But I just found out from DH that she was there the day when he was stocking up on opk and hpt. Well she started coming up to DH weekly and asking if we got a bfp yet. and now the whole store knows. It blind sided me because I thought that when you bought things at the pharmacy it was quiet. I guess not when your the wife. DH finally had to let the cat out of the bag and tell people to back off and explain what has happened. I went in today and someone said sorry to me, I now feel like the wounded puppy. URGH!!!
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August 26th, 2009, 06:25 PM
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OMG! That sucks! I completely understand you on this one. Your DH was trying to make stuff better but you can never predict what anyone's going to say to you. Geeze. People are kinda nosey sometimes. Hold your head up high!
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August 26th, 2009, 07:03 PM
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Aimz that sucks! I am glad you DH said something though. It can't be easy for him to have to hear it all day every day I really hope people leave it alone now for both your sake!
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August 26th, 2009, 07:10 PM
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Oh that stinks. Darn nosey nellys. Hugs hun don't let the drama get you down.
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August 26th, 2009, 09:08 PM
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Oh that sucks... I am so sorry you have to be put in that position. Some people just don't know were that line is, and when it shouldn't be crossed. HUGS
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August 26th, 2009, 09:57 PM
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That is terrible. Sorry you had to deal with that. I always thought, even before I started TTC, people should be more thoughtful before they go bombarding someone with questions about when they are going to have kids. You never know what someone is going through in private. But to bring it up based on your DH buying things at the pharmacy is really in poor taste!
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August 27th, 2009, 03:43 AM
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Hugs hun. Don't let them bring you down. Stupid nosy people!
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August 27th, 2009, 05:37 AM
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Im sorry you had to experience that. Hopefully now they got it out of their system and you and DH can go about your business quietyly.
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August 27th, 2009, 06:37 AM
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People are nosy by nature. I guess that can't be helped. I'm sorry you have been put into this awkward position.
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August 27th, 2009, 08:33 AM
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Geesh! What a snotbag! It's none of her **** buisness and certainly not her "duty" to tell other people's buisness. I'm sorry and maybe I'm just crass, but I want pull her aside telling her I didn't appreciate what she did that it was none of her buisness... ooooooh I wanna kick her in the knee and not apologize, for you!!!!! I LOATHE people like that!!!!!

It's such a sensitive subject and I can't believe she did that... she's certainly not worth your time and is just feinding for attention which she probably doesn't get at home. Grrrrr, I'm sorry Aimz you're so much better than that!!! I'm also sorry that now you feel like you're a wounded puppy and uncomfortable there.... there's going to be a time when karma will catch up with her.

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August 27th, 2009, 03:57 PM
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thanks everyone, between my SIL and DH's work I'm at my limit of dumb*ss people. All of you ladies ROCK!!!!
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August 27th, 2009, 07:59 PM
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She is super nosy. What gives her the right to go saying things to people? It doesn't matter if you are the bosses wife or not. There needs to be a separation between business and personal lives and she crossed it. uggggggg...... I am sorry she was like that.
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