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August 30th, 2009, 01:38 PM
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Hello & to the group (sorry for you loss that brought you here though (((((HUGS))))))... I just saw your post in the "roll call" & noticed you said you have an autoimmune disorder which you guys have fixed. Can I ask what it was/is? I hope I'm not being nosey but I was curious since I have one too, a very common one... Hashimoto's Thyroiditis, in other word's I'm hypothyroid due to my immune system attacking & killing my thyroid. I also noticed you're new... there's a board for autoimmune disorders if you ever wanna check it out... Autoimmune Disorders - JustMommies Message Boards

BTW, I'm Amanda! Nice to meet you!
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August 31st, 2009, 01:51 AM
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Hi Amanda Nice to meet you too and thank you for the kind words and suggestion.

I don't mind answering that at all. In fact I was about to write a short introduction here when I saw your post so I might aswell do it now This is my story summed up.

My DH Nathan and I met last year while I was living and studying in Oslo. Shortly after he returned to the states we were shocked to discover that I was pregnant. He'd been told he couldn't have children due to low sperm count, and I had resigned myself to a future without any kids because I was suffering from what was thought to be CFS for half my life. I knew though that I couldn't abort our little miracle, so we made plans to make it work.

As the pregnancy progressed it was clear something wasn't right and I became very ill. I had countless trips to the ER before I miscarried at around 10 or 11weeks and nobody could tell me what was wrong with me. During that time I found a lot of comfort reading these boards.

After a slow recovery I left Norway and came to the states to be with Nathan. He brought me to his doctor and after one meeting I was diagnosed with Pernicious anemia (b12 deficiancy) and quickly treated. It has left some permanent nerve damage and such, but I feel better than I can ever remember and I've got my life back now

In addition to the PA I was diagnosed with Hypothereodism when I was 15, but in my case it seems to have gone away. A little confusing since I'd been told it was a lifelong condition, but very grateful. I hope it won't return with pregnancy.

Now Nathan's varicole (which in his case was causing the infertility) has vanished aswell and we're so thankful. We've decided we're ready to start a new chapter of our lives together and we're actively TTC #1. While I still grieve that loss, I know now that children are in the cards for us after all and that is such a huge blessing.

So that's my story. I look forward to getting to know you ladies and learn yours
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August 31st, 2009, 10:49 AM
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Oh wow! I am so glad you were finally diagnosed properly & given the right medication to turn everything around! That is interesting about your hypo b/c typically it is... a lifelong condition! Hmmm. Just keep an eye on it during pg when you become pg again b/c your thyroid naturally slows down during pg so it could potentially re-occur & would be bad news for the baby if not in check.

BTW, just to let you know a little about me...
It took 3 years to get pg with our first. I do have a son from a previous marriage, Austin, 13. Well we tried for a year & decided to find a dr to help things along. That's when I was dx with hypo. It then took about a year to find a decent dr & get that all sorted out. I then found another OB who found a progesterone defect as well. He prescrebed Clomid & after 3 cycles (first 2 cycles were 50 mg & the last was 100 mg), voila I got pg! Of course, we m/c at about 11 wks & I am still waiting to be able to officially try again. The dr will prescribe Clomid again in my Oct cycle... I can't wait! I wish I could take it NOW! I'm so ready!

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August 31st, 2009, 02:44 PM
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Welcome Lindre. So sorry for your loss. I am so glad you found us. That is so wonderful they figured out what is going on with you both and you are going to be able to have children. They are such a blessing. I hope you get a sticky bean very quickly. I am Jessi btw married to Chris. I have two earth children Linda 4 and Jeremy 3 and one angel Feb 27. We are TTC again this cycle. Its been 6 months not being able to and we are super excited.
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August 31st, 2009, 03:54 PM
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Thank you for the warm welcomes and taking the time to introduce yourselves

Coming here I don't feel so alone in my struggles. As much as I love my DH it drives me nuts that he won't talk about the MC or TTC. I do understand, but for me I needed the closure. Tomorrow was supposed to be my EDD and as you ladies know so well it's rough.

I'm trying to stop worrying about what the future will bring and move on with a positive outlook. I'm keeping my fingers crossed the Hypo won't return, but I'll be discussing that with my doctor tomorrow. I wasn't aware that the thyroid slows down during pg, so thanks for the heads up

Hopefully there'll be lots of all around. Isn't that what you ladies say?
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August 31st, 2009, 06:38 PM
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Hi, Lindre!

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll be sending extra T&P your way as your EDD passes.

I hope that you get your sticky bean soon!
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August 31st, 2009, 06:45 PM
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