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September 5th, 2009, 09:24 PM
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Ladies... I am going to step back for a few days... I am really taking this hard..

I have taken the advice of some of you and continued on the Progesterone. I woke up this am with the slightest amount of brownish discharge. And none since. I only have nausea after I eat (when before it was on an empty stomach also) Bbs still sore. And HPT is darker today than two days ago. No cramps..

BUT... I don't feel pregnant like I did on Wed.... I thought something was not right. That feeling you get. So untill I start m/c or get some answers.. I feel like I am on auto pilot.. My posts are generic and not fully heart felt. I will update if anything changes.

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September 5th, 2009, 09:49 PM
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That is completely understandable.

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September 5th, 2009, 09:56 PM
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Kary, I wish you only the best. Please take this time and your DH to grieve and get the answers that you so deserve. I also pray that out of all of this, you will get a miracle. If anyone deserves it, its you.
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September 5th, 2009, 10:29 PM
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So understandable. I am so sorry you are going through this. Hugs hun.
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September 6th, 2009, 04:31 AM
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September 6th, 2009, 06:31 AM
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Kary, please do whatever you need to do, You know what's best. We are all thinking about you. HUGS. I am praying that this is going well!
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September 6th, 2009, 06:34 AM
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September 6th, 2009, 06:52 AM
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September 6th, 2009, 07:14 AM
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Take as much time as you need. Love you and so very sorry you have to go through this. My heart is breaking for you....
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September 6th, 2009, 09:08 AM
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September 6th, 2009, 12:41 PM
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Hugs and love!
Do you go back soon for another HCG check? because I've ready the progesterone can pause the miscarriage - not prevent it - but just make it take longer. I wasn't on progesterone but i found knowing for sure let me let go - and somehow let my body release the pregnancy. It was way easier for me once i really knew - I was sadder but I could let it happen and begin to grieve and then heal.
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September 6th, 2009, 01:11 PM
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September 6th, 2009, 02:05 PM
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Thinking of you during this difficult time. x
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September 6th, 2009, 02:12 PM
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I don't think there is a person on here who wouldn't understand. I take a breaks from all TTC boards for a few weeks when it gets too hard. After my m/c I used this board as a outlet for my grief but when seeing pregnancy tickers got too hard I just stepped back for a while. Take all the time you need and paritcipate only when it feels right. We are all here for you and you are always part of this sisterhood. Big Hugs.
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September 6th, 2009, 04:57 PM
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Kary - I hope you find out what is going on soon. Very sorry you're going through this...
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September 6th, 2009, 05:12 PM
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I dunno what happened, but once again POOF! post gone!

WE all understand Kary and we love you!
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September 6th, 2009, 10:36 PM
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Kary, I'm sorry to hear you're having a rough time.
I hope everything will be ok.

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September 6th, 2009, 10:38 PM
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Hugs Kary you are in my T&P"s
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September 7th, 2009, 05:48 AM
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Hugs hun! You are in my T&P!
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September 7th, 2009, 07:26 AM
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Completely understandable. Take the time you need.
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