[ablake06]

ok i have posted here a few times but not alot!! i am more of a lurker than a poster!!!

anyways, i have had 2 miscarriages! the most recent was July 28th - both of them were around the 14 weeks when we found out and both were missed with being around 11 weeks of growth!

we are very anxious of trying again!!! since our doctor and we have a game plan this time! i went in for testing and also the baby was tested as well and nothing was wrong - no blood clotting disorder either with me! anyways so our plan is taking baby apsirin, progesterone, and lovenox small dose when we do get pregnant!!

ok anyways! so my husband and i basically weren't trying this month but weren't preventing either!!

so i believe we had sex during my ovulation days since i noticed i had alot of EWCM and i mean it was aLOT and i also had O pains!!! so my ovulation days were (August 19-23) i didn't chart since i just had my m/c.

anyways - NO PERIOD yet!! i tested today and BFN! i am just confused!!! should i test again - should i expect my period to show up? should i wait longer and if so how much longer?
i don't feel like my period is going to show up anytime soon!!

i have symptoms of these!!
- sore breasts
- blue veins on breasts and around nipple
- sore nipples
- some cramping
- some acne
- back pain
- tired

i am just confused! so what do you think i should do ladies? do you think im out this month? or just a late implanter? or my levels aren't high enough to detect?

[JessP]

It really could be a number of things. Although it does look like you could be pregnant. You could also just be having a delayed period after you m/c. Some ladies on here went a long time before they had af. When did you think you would get your period? If you are unsure I would call your doctor and see if they can do a blood test just to be sure. They probably will. I hope you got your BFP and it is sticky.

[Trish36]

I'm sorry for your losses!!! It is possible that you are pregnant again and, like you said, it could have implanted late and your levels are too low to detect. Did you test with a FRER and FMU??? A FRER would normally pick up hcg as low as 8 (in my experience). But there are a few ladies here who have had to wait quite some time for the first AF to show. How long did you wait after your first m/c??? I hope you get your BFP shortly. SEnding you tons of baby dust!

[ablake06]

no i didn't test with a FRER or FMU! i just did it this afternoon - i know it was in my head and i couldn't get it out and the only way i could was by testing!! i think if my af doesn't show up by Wednesday or Thursday i will test again!

i thought my period would have showed up yesterday!!!

after my first it should up on day 39! so that is why im thinking it should be here by now!!!!! we tried right away after our first and got pregnant the 3rd cycle!!!

i guess i am just soo confused i feel like i am and i have a feeling i am - i just know sometimes the HCG levels can be low - i know my sister-in-law tested when her period was due and got a BFN and also had spotting like an AFand then just wasn't feeling good - and retested and got a BFP!

i guess im not going to give up until AF shows! which i really hope not!!!

but if it implanted late!!

thanks ladies

[charm]

I want to say sorry for your losses hun and goodluck it's not over until the witch arrives!!!

[sodagirl]

I'm sorry for your losses!
Sooo - after my first mc - i also got a ton of EWCM - like soaking! So I didn't have sex then but *thought* i was in the clear a few days later. Had sex *once* and got pg again! (Sadly I mc again - but I hadn't gone to a doctor and had no plan - so i'm *sure* you will have better luck!) So my guess is you Oed a little later than you think - so test in a few days. *baby dust!!*

[Mel1979]

Sorry for your losses but good luck for this cycle, hope you get your BFP!

[Cathy =^..^=]

Sorry for your losses, but I am sending lots of BFP dust your way! Your symptoms sound promising to me.

[ablake06]

hey ladies - just wanted to let you know i THINK i got my period today! well i have a very light bascially spotting today! i am going to keep an eye on it as i still have some symptoms but they also could be AF symptoms as well!!!

if it is my AF - GREAT - now let the trying again BEGIN!!! pray for me this cycle as i am praying for all of you to get your BFPS!!

baby dust to all!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Kary♥RN]

Ablake, I am so sorry for your loss, HUGS.... Welcome... I hope you get your BFP for a spring/summer baby! Good Luck!

[ablake06]

thank you!!! i am praying everyday for a spring/summer baby!!! i know its going to happen!!!! i did cry to my husband today b/c seeing a first period after a miscarriage is hard but i am glad i did get it b/c now i am on the full trying to conceive train!! but my husband always makes me laugh - he said don't worry - we weren't really trying - ill get your knocked up - trust me - no worries got to love him!!!

i hope everyone gets theri BFPs as well!!!

[Cathy =^..^=]

Your hubby sounds like a sweetie! Mine said similar things. He was trying to be upbeat ya know? I was really relieved to get my first period after my m/c. It was like a fresh start, maybe just a bit of closure. Best of luck to you guys!!!

[~Lynda~]

HUGS to you for your losses!!! i know my cycles were all screwed up for almost 6 cycles post m/c. 14 weeks is late for a m/c too so it reeks havoc on your hormones. I hope you are pregnant though!!!! That would be great!!! good luck!!

[ablake06]

nope no pregnancy! AF showed up! and i am glad!!! glad to see my cycles are back!!! yah i was 14 weeks but the baby was only 11 weeks - the exact same as my first loss!!!

praying for sticky bean next month!!!!

[SkyBaby]

I'm so sorry for your losses *hands you super sticky baby cement* Use that when you're ready. The baby probably died at around 5 weeks. The doc said my uterus didn't grow any. I miscarried naturally and my body did what it was supposed to. I had a very light period. Almost no cramping, but lots of liquidy blood but no clots. I was concerned at first, but then I realized everything must have been passed naturally. My period lasted 3 days and was done a week ago.

[ablake06]

thank you! i hope to use that super sticky baby cement SOON!!!!