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September 9th, 2009, 12:38 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Ok Ladies if this is your Cycle....
When will your EDD be????
Will you join a DDC?
Finally... Are you doing anything different this cycle???
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September 9th, 2009, 12:44 PM
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Happy to be a SAHM!
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Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: Illinois (just outside of St. Louis)
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June 11th
If I am lucky enough to get a BFP then June DDC here I come...
I've got some Pre-Seed for this cycle. I've never used it before so we'll see...
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September 9th, 2009, 12:52 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: Houston, TX
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May 23
Absolutely joining a DDC (and PAL!!!)
I took Estroven for two cycles to build the ole lining up!
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September 9th, 2009, 01:10 PM
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Mom of 4
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Location: Ontario, Canada
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When will your EDD be???? May 25 (I think) but not holding my breath
Will you join a DDC? I will, but not right away. I'll wait at least until I'm past 5 weeks and know that this pregnancy is progressing nicely
Finally... Are you doing anything different this cycle??? same old...vitamin B6 and preeseed (cause I am taking allergy pills and my CM is all dried up)
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September 9th, 2009, 01:50 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Ohio
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Ok Ladies if this is your Cycle....
When will your EDD be???? It would be May 27th!!! You have all probably read this before, but I work in a school and that is the perfect time to have a baby!! It's actually 5 days before school is out for the summer  So I am crossing my fingers!!
Will you join a DDC? Probably.... though I am a little nervous about miscarrying again (which I am sure we all have). So I may lurk for awhile.
Finally... Are you doing anything different this cycle??? Well, we only DTD once so if we get pregnant we will be pretty lucky since I don't really know when I O'd. I just kind of made a guess based on what my body was telling me.
I also am not drinking caffeine. I also had DH stop drinking caffeine too. I don't know if it affects his spermies very much but I wanted both egg and sperm to be healthy!!
I didn't drink a lot before, but I am really watching it this time.
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September 9th, 2009, 01:52 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Manitoba Canada
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Not sure...probably beginning of June sometime...if the Fermara helps me O earlier than normal.
I'm not sure...I did last time, but it's hard cause I got to know some people from there, but now I don't talk to them cause it's too hard.
Fermara for the first time...hope it does the trick.
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September 9th, 2009, 01:56 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2009
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Oh how fun and positive!
When will your EDD be???? If I catch the egg this go-round then 6/15-ish
Will you join a DDC? I will try and wait until I've completed my first trimester since I m/c so far along into my first trimester. Superstitious but that's just me.
Finally... Are you doing anything different this cycle??? Drinking lots of water to make better cervical fluid, trying to eat a bit healthier, and taking my folic acid again. (I had been neglecting it last cycle.
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September 9th, 2009, 02:23 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Southern PA
Posts: 13,228
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When will your EDD be???? Sometime in the middle of June
Will you join a DDC? I am not sure. Not sure If I want to go through all of that fakeness again. In my last DDC after I had the m/c it was like I had a disease. No one wrote me back anymore and when I did post, it was just post pumpers responding 1 word answers. In the loss boards and here it feels more genuine. And I have my friend Lori here!
Finally... Are you doing anything different this cycle??? I started taking FertilAid yesterday (CD1) and I bought preseed and lots of OPK's! Oh yea, we are going to have sex too! (we missed out last cycle as BF was out of town)
GOOD LUCK EVERYONE. LOTS OF STICKY BFP DUST TO ALL!
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September 9th, 2009, 02:42 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: illinois
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May 30th would be my DD.
No to a DDC, just PAL. In most DDC's when you have a question about how your pregnancy is going, no matter how bad it is, everyone reply's with "this is normal". Ive seen so many women get told this when it is pretty clear that they are having a m/c, and then I see these womens hopes get up only to be let down. I dont think I can go along with a happy go lucky DDC where no one ever gives realistic responses to women. (ie., "its taken 6 days for my betas to double before 6wks of pregnancy and women reply "thats perfectly normal, at least their going up and many women go on to have successful pregnancies, dont worry) Im not saying that I would respond negatively, but realistickly.(msp) Plus, I dont like the fact that women will post about have a m/c and then two minutes later someone posts about how they wish this pregnancy would be over because their uncomfortable. Ive seen this too many times......No regard to other women's feelings.
Im taking B6 since beginning of last cycle and still taking baby aspirin and pre-nates.
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September 9th, 2009, 03:37 PM
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May 21. Like Dawna, I'll join the May DDC and PAL. This cycle we made a major change, we used more aggressive fertility drugs and did IUI (twice). If I'm not pregnant this cycle, after all of the extra hard work and $$$$, I am going to be PISSED!
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September 9th, 2009, 04:12 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Ohio
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June 4 would be my due date (I'm with you Amanda!! I am a teacher, and June 4 would be PERFECT!!).
I would like to join a DDC, but will probably wait until at least 10 weeks or more. Maybe after a strong heartbeat is heard. So, I guess I'm on the fence. So cautious!
We are doing 50mg clomid this cycle. Definitely different. I have also started taking my pre-natals again (I slacked. I need to do better!), and have been trying to eat more fresh fruits/veggies. We also are using PreSeed.
Here's to hoping for all of us! I'm trying not to get my hopes up at all, but...who are we kidding. They are sooo up.
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September 9th, 2009, 04:23 PM
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Lovin life and family
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Washington
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When will your EDD be???? May 30th yeah momof4lopez and I would be buddies
Will you join a DDC? probably but only because I know a number of other pal ladies are in the May DDC. And I am trying to be excited from the beginning no matter which way it goes. I don't want to feel guilty like I did last time for not being excited enough.
Finally... Are you doing anything different this cycle??? I am being very good about my prenatals and my allergy medicine. Last pregnancy my allergies made my ms worse. And normally I am not good about my vitamins.
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September 9th, 2009, 04:44 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I just wanted to dump a big load of baby  on all of you ladies!! Sending tons of good vibes your way!!
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September 9th, 2009, 05:05 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: illinois
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Quote:
Originally Posted by P.e.n.e.l.o.p.e
I just wanted to dump a big load of baby  on all of you ladies!! Sending tons of good vibes your way!!
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Thanks P, we could sure use it!
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September 9th, 2009, 05:05 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Alberta, Canada
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When will your EDD be???? June 16th
Will you join a DDC? It depends on how I'm feeling and how many of my JM friends are in the same DDC.
Finally... Are you doing anything different this cycle???I'm charting again and using my monitor again. I've got a Dr. appt next week and I'm going to be more assertive about getting help!
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September 9th, 2009, 05:56 PM
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I like JessP thinking..... we need more in the May DDC and I want to see even more in the June DDC. I'm lonely right now.......
Last edited by Aimz; September 9th, 2009 at 05:58 PM.
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September 9th, 2009, 07:03 PM
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Proud JM hostess
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Location: @ JM if I'm not at work
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Kary♥RN
Ok Ladies if this is your Cycle....
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When will your EDD be???? According to my O date May 26th, 2010
Will you join a DDC? Dunno, I don't wanna... (insert pouty face here) I wouldn't want to be away from y'all!!!
I would *pop* over there out of excitement, but I just dunno when I would "officially" go there
Finally... Are you doing anything different this cycle??? Using the OPK LH strips
April 2008 until July 2009 we were BD'ing frequently esp. around O time, but I wasn't temping/charting because DH felt like it would be "too much interference" with God (wt??? whatever) so I had charted a little in april n may, but not fully.
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September 9th, 2009, 08:07 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: US - Alabama
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I wanna play along though I HIGHLY doubt this will be our cycle since we aren't on Clomid yet.
When will your EDD be???? June 9th
Will you join a DDC? Not sure... I'd like to.
Finally... Are you doing anything different this cycle??? NTNP till next cycle when we will be using Clomid again! I really have a good feeling about next cycle & if pg next cycle my EDD will be July 5th!
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September 9th, 2009, 08:57 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Southern PA
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Quote:
Originally Posted by JessP
When will your EDD be???? May 30th yeah momof4lopez and I would be buddies
And I am trying to be excited from the beginning no matter which way it goes. I don't want to feel guilty like I did last time for not being excited enough.
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Hey Jess, sorry to be so nosy but what do you mean you don't want to feel guilty for not being excited enough?
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September 9th, 2009, 09:18 PM
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Lovin life and family
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Washington
Posts: 21,980
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Oh I was so stressed the whole time and we didn't get excited and then when we did we lost the baby a week later. So I want to enjoy every min this time and not worry so much. Yeah good luck with that right  . I guess I just thought maybe I didn't get to keep the baby because I wasn't excited enough. Or at least that is what I thought at the time. I hope that makes sense.
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