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September 10th, 2009, 12:44 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am new here....the below is my story...This just happened two days ago. I am not actually TTC yet since i just had the D&C but I figured I might as well come over here and get to know all of you! I want to TTC with girls that have btdt and can make me feel calmer because I know that the next pregnancy is going to creep me out.
Here was my story in the NOV PR just two days ago:
Definately lost our little baby today... my bleeding is incredibly fast and heavy. I am clotting consistently and my cervix is so so sore. Pray that I will be able to conceive again soon...
Update: Was rushed to the ER right after this post because I started passing golf ball sized clots and when I stood up I basically exploded and lost so much blood. I started feeling like I was going to pass out. I got to the hospital and they took me right back to the ER. I had started hemmoraging. They rushed me to the OR for a D&C and had to give me blood and an IV. They had to intubate me and later the Doctor told me that it was so sad because even with the medicine they gave me to relax me (because I was crying) I was crying even as she intubated me...in my sleep I was crying.  Then she told me that when I woke up (or came to) I was crying still. (I dont remember any of it)
The dr that did the D&C said that my uterus and vagina was packed full of blood clots that were up to the size of a tennis ball. They removed the sac and baby and figured I was right around 6 weeks (like I thought)
The weirdest part is that I never had any pain
Anyhow, I am really sad and pretty traumatized. i wish I could have just miscarried at home...
So thats my story. DH and I arent going to try until we get the OK from the Dr...but we are looking forward to #3 still.
Cant wait to get to know all of u ladies.
Last edited by momma2princesses; September 10th, 2009 at 12:59 PM.
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September 10th, 2009, 12:50 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Oh! I have tears in my eyes! I'm so sorry. Welcome and hugs. Good luck - I hope you heal fast! and  when you are ready to try again.
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September 10th, 2009, 12:56 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear your story and that the pain is still so fresh... 
your story sounds pretty intense! Glad that you're ok with all considering.
Welcome to TTCAL, you'll find an AWESOME group of ladies here!!!!
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September 10th, 2009, 12:56 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am so sorry for your loss.. HUGS. I hope you heal soon and give you the OK to start to try soon. HUGS. Welcome the board... you will find a great group of ladies that will give you the support of TTCAL... HUGS
Sorry.. did you mean Nov PR? Not the Nov DDC?
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September 10th, 2009, 01:02 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I did mean PR  i still say the DDC!! oops!
Thanks ladies for all your kind words!
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September 10th, 2009, 01:22 PM
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Super Mommy
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I'm sooo sorry ***hugs***.... Hope you heal fast and get the the okay to TTC again
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September 10th, 2009, 01:32 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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September 10th, 2009, 03:18 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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HUGS hun. I"m so sorry to welcome you here. You will find all the support that you want on this board. Let us help you whenever you need it, and we'll all be here to celebrate your BFP when you begin to ttc again! I look forward to getting to know you.
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September 10th, 2009, 03:24 PM
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Mom of 4
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Michelle..I'm so sorry for your loss. HUGS!!!! that was a scary situation and I'm just glad that you are okay. I hope you heal quickly - physically & emotionally. Wishing you good luck in your ttc journey and sending you tons of baby dust for a quick BFP!
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September 10th, 2009, 03:27 PM
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I am so sorry that you had to go through this sweetie.. This is a great place to be cause you can vent and let out your feelings and all of us know how you feel.. Also pregnancy loss forum is great too.. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.. I am actually in the process of loosing my last baby too...
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September 10th, 2009, 03:36 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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what a scary time. i'm so sorry you had to deal w/ trauma on top of the emotional aspect, too. hope your doc gives you the go ahead soon! after my d & c, my doc only wanted us to wait one cycle...
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September 10th, 2009, 06:04 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Oh my gosh, honey I'm so sorry.
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September 10th, 2009, 06:05 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. Thanks for sharing your story with us...I know it's so hard to even type those words sometimes. We have all "been there done that" like you said so we understand. Welcome to the board.
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September 10th, 2009, 06:07 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I doubt there was a dry eye for any ladies who read your post. I am so sorry the loss of your baby and for the trauma you went through.
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September 10th, 2009, 06:15 PM
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Im so sorry for all that you have been through and pray for speedy recovery. I too had a d&c after hemoraging and know how scary that is. Good thing with a d&c is that your hormone levels will go back to normal very quickly and you may ovulate in two weeks. So if your not trying right now, make sure to use some protection.
Welcome, and when the time is right for you and DH we will be here waiting for you to TTCAL.
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September 10th, 2009, 06:57 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss and what a scary experience on top of it all. We understand all too well everything that goes with TTCAL and are here for you.
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September 10th, 2009, 07:15 PM
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I'm so sorry for you loss. These ladies are a great support.
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September 10th, 2009, 07:47 PM
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Waiting for my turn.
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Join Date: Aug 2009
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Im so sorry for your loss. You will find alot of support here.
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September 10th, 2009, 08:44 PM
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Lovin life and family
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I am so sorry for your loss and for the trama you went through. Welcome to the group. These ladies are wonderful .
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September 10th, 2009, 09:57 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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thanks again everyone....all of your love and concern is just so sweet and encouraging! Plus the idea of ovulating in two weeks is awesome! i would love to get preggo that soon...but also want to make sure to heal too
Thanks for the warm lovely welcome!
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