This is truly our first month of trying..we havent prevented since our loss (we BARELY even talked in august let alone dtd)..so im really nervous...as our times are crazy we decided to do quickies since we dont always have time..he has to be in bed by 9:30..after putting the kids to bed im sometimes soo tired i could care less about dtd...so quickies work for us...but im soo nervous..mainly cause i expect AF to show...im never on time like before so that doesnt help