Here I go again...Update. Confirmed loss #5

mom2njia · #1 September 22nd, 2009, 07:23 PM

I havent been on this board for sometime, we had decided to stop trying for a while. But to my happy surprise I found out I was pregnant on sept 16. I got a ton of nice BFP's. Had my first blood drawn on Monday, got levels today, 33. Which isnt bad, but not close to great. I go in tomorrow for my next draw.

Because I am crazy I POAS today and it was MUCH lighter than yesterday. I am expecting that this will be yet another chemical pregnancy. loss number 5.
This is more than I can take. How the heck did I have 3 healthy babies and then lose so many?

** I got my results. Hcg dropped to 16. So I am definitely losing this baby too.

SkyBaby · #2 September 22nd, 2009, 08:40 PM

Oh no.. I'm praying it isn't so. What tests were you using? did you test with FMU the next day?

starrsgirl · #3 September 22nd, 2009, 08:41 PM

I'm so sorry you are getting mixed results! I hope your pregnancy is still just brand new and everything will turn out OK. keep us posted.

momof6lopez · #4 September 22nd, 2009, 10:05 PM

I pray your wrong, that maybe tomorrow will be a better result for you. But I POAS every day when I found out a week ago I was pg too. And the lighter test is what got me into the ER and I found out it was etopic. The POAS saved my tube, so Im grateful for that, but know how scared and devestated you feel when you see a lighter line. Im praying it is different for you tomorrow though. KUP.

Kary♥RN · #5 September 23rd, 2009, 12:30 AM

I hope that it was just a faulty test.... I too was POAS.. and my line wasn't getting any darker just staying the same.. my numbers went from 91-93... I knew something was wrong... I am still geting +'s and I knew again.. something was wrong..... I hate that feeling... I hate that we know this... WE SHOULDN"T know this... We should have healthy pregnancies.. HUGS

AliciaF · #6 September 23rd, 2009, 10:38 AM

It happened to me 3 times in 6 months

I'd get my BFP, it would get darker or at least stay the same for a couple days and then go to negative and I'd start bleeding.

I was finally tested and diagnosed and with treatment I am now 32 weeks!

Good luck, I remember you from a while ago

lem0ndr0p · #7 September 23rd, 2009, 11:26 AM

I'm so sorry! I remember you also! I know what you mean about having 3 healthy pregnancies and then having trouble. The same thing has happened to me. Is your dr checking your progesterone or planning on running any tests? When and if I get pg again my doctor is going to put me on progesterone. She said that it doesn't always work, but it may help. I'm so sorry that you are having to go through this yet again. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.

Trish36 · #8 September 23rd, 2009, 12:07 PM

I'm so sorry you are going through this again! Same thing is happening to me...3 heatlhy kids and now 3 m/c in 6 months. This just isn't fair! HUGS!!!!!!

mom2njia · #9 September 23rd, 2009, 12:16 PM

I was on progesterone. I am hoping they will run tests for clotting disorders this time.

JessP · #10 September 23rd, 2009, 01:52 PM

I am so sorry you are going through this.

..Penelope.. · #11 September 23rd, 2009, 04:50 PM

I'm so sorry, honey

Huge

I really hope that the tests give you some answers.

#12 September 23rd, 2009, 04:56 PM

I' m sorry that you are going through this again. I too don't understand why this happens to people, it just doesn't make sense. I hope you can get some answers and the right treatment to see you through a healthy pg & forever baby. *Hugs*

missy123 · #13 September 23rd, 2009, 05:54 PM

I am so sorry this is happening to you. I also have 3 children with no issues, and now have had 3 losses in the last year. It isn't fair and so hard.

mom2njia · #14 September 23rd, 2009, 08:40 PM

Thank you all, I just dont get it either.

farasha · #15 September 24th, 2009, 05:02 AM

Oh hun. I didn't want to see a post like this. I am so sorry. Big HUGS.... I really hope you can get some help to find out why this keeps happening. It's not fair.

~Lynda~ · #16 September 24th, 2009, 06:18 AM

big big hugs girl!!! i know how you feel, i've had three losses after having children! i'm so sorry. i would be chatting with the dr. to see if they can test to see what's going on. HUGS!!!

.:Shortcake:. · #17 September 24th, 2009, 06:50 AM

I am so sorry hun.. Big hugs

jenine · #18 September 24th, 2009, 01:34 PM

So very sorry to hear this news for you...I can't even imagine going through it that many times. I definitely think, if you are up for it, that you should have an RE have a look at your hormones and see what is going on with your body.