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September 25th, 2009, 05:26 PM
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Mommy to Orion
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Im back.
Confirmed 2nd loss. 
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September 25th, 2009, 05:45 PM
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Super Mommy
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I am so sorry!
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September 25th, 2009, 06:31 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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OH KIMBERLY.... HUGS.. I am so sorry...... This is so not fair.. I am sorry sooo sorry. I wish this was not happening to you... We are here for you,
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September 25th, 2009, 06:53 PM
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Happy to be a SAHM!
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Oh Kimberly, I am so sorry. Lots of hugs to you right now. 
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September 25th, 2009, 08:15 PM
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Lovin life and family
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I am so sorry you are going through this again. Lots of 
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September 25th, 2009, 08:39 PM
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Oh NO.....I so didn't want to open your post. I'm so sorry for you loss. keeping you in my T & P's
biggest hugs to you
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September 25th, 2009, 09:03 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am sorry. Having a baby should be so hard...
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Erica, Mom to Peter. TTC#2 after 13 losses
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September 25th, 2009, 10:30 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Im so sorry too Kimberly, my heart breaks for you tonight
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OMG, Here we go again! Good Lord, thank you for being so gracious! For everyone of my angels have been sent back to me again!
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September 25th, 2009, 10:41 PM
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Hi honey,  I'm really sorry for your loss Kimberly, so sorry!
You're NOT broken, remember NOT broken!
It may feel like you are, but you aren't and unfortunatly it is very common 30% of pg end in a loss. Not that it makes it a easier pill to swallow, but knowing you're not alone and have all of us here should help some. We'll do what we can to help you get thru this Kimberly, ONE DAY AT A TIME!!!!
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September 26th, 2009, 03:34 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry.
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September 26th, 2009, 04:54 AM
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Oh hun I am so sorry! Sending you super big hugs!
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September 26th, 2009, 07:08 AM
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Mom of 4
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I am so sorry that it's happened again. It seems like this keeps on happening to a lot of us lately. Feels like groundhog day. Aggggrrrr!!! HUGS!!!! We are here for you!
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September 26th, 2009, 07:29 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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HUGS.. I am so sorry. It's not fair and it's not ok that this keeps happening to so many of us. I wish there was something I could do besides give you a big virtual hug...
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Blog on RPL and TTC
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*Forever missing our three butterfly angel babies*
~December 08~ ~May 09~ ~September 09~
Proudly breastfeeding, pumping, and cloth diapering my little sweet pea!
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September 26th, 2009, 07:29 AM
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Kelly, Massachusetts Mama
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I am so sorry to hear about your loss! You are NOT broken, just stronger because of it. That's the only way to look at it to get through this.
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September 26th, 2009, 09:09 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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big big big hugs to you!!!! i am so very very sorry!!
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September 26th, 2009, 10:10 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am so sorry, honey You are NOT broken! Thinking of you.
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September 26th, 2009, 10:19 AM
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Mommy to Orion
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Thanks ladies...
I guess I can appreciate it happened especially early this time.. it just doesn't make it any easier.
There's something about having the 2nd loss that chances everything.. The first loss was devastating, but it felt like perhaps it was a one time thing or a fluke or... *sigh* you know? Now it definitely starts to point to a problem.. And that's really hard to acknowledge. I don't want to wait to have another one before my doctors start to question the reasoning behind it.
I dunno, just been reflecting a bit. DF wants to continue trying still, also.. He was much stronger this time around.. He tried not to get attached to the idea of me being pregnant again..
Anyway..
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September 26th, 2009, 11:27 AM
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Kimberly, first off, I never even got to congratulate you. I must of been MIA due to my own loss. We had the same edd. But everyone here deserves that, and for that I apologize. I can relate to your feelings of beeing relieved that it was earlier this time. I too was extremely devestated with my first at 9.5wks. This one though, like you, has brought that sense of "its not a fluke anymore". It is so sureal when they are back to back like this. I did get testing after my loss in April and I had no issues. As the Dr. said, just bad luck. And that was my second one as of April. Now Im up to three in 9months. I still feel as if it were just bad luck and will go on merry way trying one more time before seeing a specialist. I pray with your age being so young, that this is just bad luck. But it would not hurt to have a blood pannel done and go from there. Is your dr. willing? Or have you not seen him yet? Please KUP, and we will all be here for you rooting you on and paying for you.
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OMG, Here we go again! Good Lord, thank you for being so gracious! For everyone of my angels have been sent back to me again!
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September 26th, 2009, 11:41 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry to hear this. Big Hugs to you...hang in there, Girl!
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September 26th, 2009, 04:06 PM
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I'm so sorry Kimberly.
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