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September 28th, 2009, 09:49 AM
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Forgot to tell all of his friends that we had lost our baby. So yesterday we went to a BBQ with his friends and their wives and I got about a zillion questions of

"Hows the little baby" where i would start to tell them how Violette (my youngest) is doing.

or

"How are you feeling?" um...fine...why?

followed by "Any morning sickness yet?

or the worst:

"Congrats i heard you are pregnant! When are you due?" oh um...we actually lost that baby two weeks ago. I had a miscarriage.

Followed by the awkward... Oh um. I am so sorry. How are you doing?

UGH!
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September 28th, 2009, 09:57 AM
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I am sorry you had to go though that. It is really hard when people don't know and bring it up. It is very painful.
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September 28th, 2009, 09:59 AM
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Oh, I'm so sorry you had to go through that. That is the worst! I think you're always going to run into that one person that doesn't know, which is awkward, but it's not usually a whole party at once!!! HUGS hun. I would make sure my hubby paid for that one!
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September 28th, 2009, 10:01 AM
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I'm so sorry! That's the pits.. that's why I'm not telling anyone outside of my parents and his parents when we get pregnant again.
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September 28th, 2009, 10:50 AM
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I am so sorry. Hugs hun! That was one of the worst things for me too. Because we told everyone right away.
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September 28th, 2009, 12:51 PM
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Oh I am so sorry.... I had to go that at work.. since it could be weeks before I work with the same people... HUGS
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September 28th, 2009, 03:22 PM
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just when you think its over...

I'm sorry. Sounds like you handled it well though.
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September 28th, 2009, 10:32 PM
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*HUGS* I am sorry you had to go through that it's hard.
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