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October 5th, 2009, 07:19 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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One year ago today we lost our 1st baby. So much has happend in the past year. One year ago we were just dating and the pregnancy was such a suprise and shock. The furthest thing from our minds was having a child. We talked about not having the baby, he talked to his parents... we decided that I would raise the child and he would support his child and we talked about visitation ect.... Then 1 year ago today I lost that baby and it changed our whole world. We ended up making our relationship official and more serious... I met his family, they loved me and loved our relationship... we went on to try to have a baby and that baby didn't make it. He lost his job, got a new one and had to travel out of town most of the time. We moved in together. And we have each other and a really fantastic relationship and now we want a baby together and I am running out of time.....
I am a little sad today.
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October 5th, 2009, 07:40 AM
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Happy to be a SAHM!
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We are all here for you.
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October 5th, 2009, 07:45 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Missy, keep your head up sweetie, your time is coming. It was one year ago yesterday, that we would of been due with our first loss. I did not know we had that in common too  Im here for you and everyone else here as well. We will get past this day together. Lots of HUGS and love your way.......
Sorry edited to add, that it was our due date yesterday with our first loss, did not meen to confuse you!
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October 5th, 2009, 07:47 AM
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Mom of 4
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I'm sory honey! HUGS!!!
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October 5th, 2009, 08:19 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Thanks ladies. I didn't even realize that it would hit me this hard. uggggggg.... Thanks for your support.
Lori - I am glad we have a lot of good stuff in common too  Happy Birthday to Jerry!
I am fighting back the tears today. I can't even seem to focus on work at all. It isn't that stabbing pain in the early months of a loss, more like deep sadness for what should have been.
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October 5th, 2009, 08:26 AM
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Missy  I'm so sorry for your pain (pains) and that you're having a heavy day filled with sadness. I hope that you pamper yourself in some way today because you deserve it lady! Are you and SO doing anything tonight together? Some cuddle and talk time? Date night?
I couldn't imagine... what your wrote sounds like a fairytale of sorts when I read it, that despite the odds you two came out on TOP & TOGETHER! That is amazing that it made you both stronger and pull together thru the devastation. There is a wonderful relationship right there that you both have in each other.
I don't want to sound cliche` but fairytales have happy endings too!!!
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October 5th, 2009, 09:35 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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HUGS Missy. Let yourself feel this. I think it's completely normal... I hope that by a year from today, you are holding a healthy baby in your arms.
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*Forever missing our three butterfly angel babies*
~December 08~ ~May 09~ ~September 09~
Proudly breastfeeding, pumping, and cloth diapering my little sweet pea!
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October 5th, 2009, 09:52 AM
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Kelly, Massachusetts Mama
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I agree with Celena, and I am so sorry you are going through this!!!
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October 5th, 2009, 10:06 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Oh Missy HUGS.... I wish I could give you a big hug! I am so sorry that today has come. I wish I could make it all better for us all. I wish I could put that miracle back in your arms to hold forever here on Earth. I wish I could take the hurt away. HUGS
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October 5th, 2009, 10:50 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Hugs hun. I am so sorry if you need anything I'm only a PM away.
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October 5th, 2009, 05:53 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm so sorry, honey...sorry that your baby is not here in your arms, and that you are in pain. I'm sending extra love and thoughts to you and your angel today.
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