Thinking we are probably out again this month

JessP · #1 October 8th, 2009, 02:33 PM

So I know its way to early to tell for sure but I am starting to do the same stupid spotting I did last month about this time. I just don't know what we are doing wrong. Oh well. I am have an OB appointment on the 15th maybe he can tell me better what is going on and why this is happening. I hope it isn't something serious. I am still rooting for all of the other ladies

. I hope you all get

this month. Lots of

to everyone.

edit to add: and of course when you try to look up spotting 4dpo it all says implantation and pregnancy. Well that doesn't help

. I did have some twinges earlier. Oh well I need to stop obsessing.

krystal g · #2 October 8th, 2009, 03:18 PM

I hope you are wrong! Sending you lots

JessP · #3 October 8th, 2009, 04:58 PM

Me too Krystal thanks.

momof6lopez · #4 October 8th, 2009, 05:02 PM

You cant be out yet, were buddies remember? Since my m/c's this year, I have spotting after af until about cd8. Always after dtd too. You may just have a very sensitive cervix. Im pulling you in until the end, theres no backing out now...

JessP · #5 October 8th, 2009, 05:27 PM

I do have a very sensitive cervix. My doctors keep talking about freezing it to help so I don't bleed/spot so much. That is why last month when this started I thought it was because I was pregnant. My cervix reacts whenever it is messed with so if it was changing because I was pregnant that made sense to me plus I usually spot the entire first trimester. But then AF came so now its hard to have that excitement. I also wonder because it only happened when I did #2 going potty, (sorry if TMI) so maybe that has something to do with it. I just don't know and don't know who to ask and have a whole week till I can see my dr

. I hope it isn't that I am getting pregnant and my body just keeps getting rid of it or something terrible like that.

~InHisHands~ · #6 October 8th, 2009, 05:48 PM

I hope it's nothing & you get your BFP!

momof6lopez · #7 October 8th, 2009, 06:15 PM

I dont think its your body getting rid of a pregnancy, you would have more issues than that. But like I said, I asked my dr. about the spotting after dtd and spotting until cd8 like clock work, and he just said the spotting after AF up to day 8 was just left over from AF. Spotting after dtd or anything that could cause pressure on it is also normal. He has been telling me since my loss in April that my cervix is just extremely friable(msp). Says it could stop all of a sudden or just continue to happen. He did say it would not interfere with a pregnancy, other than spotting, no mention of incompetent cervix or anything like that. So hopefully that is your case too.

JessP · #8 October 9th, 2009, 09:24 PM

The spotting has actually slowed down through the day and now has stopped....
I am on the verge of hope.....
I keep getting the oh AF came feeling but nothing there. Fingers Crossed.

TeresaSuperMama · #9 October 10th, 2009, 11:20 AM

Good luck! I hope you are wrong and you get your bfp.

.:Shortcake:. · #10 October 10th, 2009, 03:16 PM

G/L I hope you were wrong and you get your BFP!

JessP · #11 October 10th, 2009, 03:19 PM

Thanks ladies me too.

missy123 · #12 October 10th, 2009, 06:37 PM

I am routing for you Jess!! I hope this is just implantation bleeding and you are pregnant!

JessP · #13 October 10th, 2009, 07:01 PM

It would be super long time if it was LOL.

thanks Missy, I am praying its just my cervix being sensitive and cranky because it is "changing" Fingers crossed.

Kary♥RN · #14 October 10th, 2009, 07:33 PM

I hope you are wrong and you get your BFP!!!

JessP · #15 October 11th, 2009, 09:03 AM

Well today is starting good. The spotting was only around a couple hours yesterday and so far is a no show today. Maybe all the good thoughts from you ladies are helping

.