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October 13th, 2009, 08:39 AM
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Kelly, Massachusetts Mama
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October 13th, 2009, 08:47 AM
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Veteran
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i'm so sorry you're feeling down. That's completely normal. It's been 5 months since my loss & i still get annoyed when someone else gets pregnant (on the first try, too) Just keep your head up & know that it WILL happen. Being positive is the best medicine. I know that's not easy to do, but just give your mind & body time to heal...
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October 13th, 2009, 08:55 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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HUGS.... I know the waiting for the first AF... is the worst... It took my body 35 days to show.. The longest 35 days ever! When did your doctor tell you to call is she dosen't show up? My doctor said after the 6 weeks.... and it took me 6 weeks.. GOOD LUCK I hope she shows soon.. so you can move forward! And just for the record.... It will a year next month... since my 1st loss... And I still get up set with seeing pregnant women.. Maybe it is since everytime I start feeling ok about it.. I get a BFP and have another loss.... I wish I could tell you the feeling goes away.. and I am sure it does for certain people.. But for me... It still stings and stabs... HUGS
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October 13th, 2009, 09:45 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Hugs hun. I hope AF shows up soon.
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October 13th, 2009, 09:57 AM
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fka teresarunningmommy
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((Hugs))) I hope AF shows up soon for you. I'm all for the MIB eraser gadget too. I'd like a fast forward button as well. Time is moving slow for me too so I feel your pain. Hang in there.
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October 13th, 2009, 11:59 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I pray AF is right around the corner for you, on average, your almost there. Im sorry for the feelings your having right now as well, I get them still to, alot like Kary spoke of. Everytime I feel better about it, I get a BFP and then go on to m/c. It has to get better, at least thats what I keep thinking anyway.
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October 13th, 2009, 12:53 PM
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Kelly, Massachusetts Mama
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October 13th, 2009, 01:37 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry. It's OK - however you feel, it is ok to feel that way!
And what is up with the FB postings? I put my family under STRICT orders Nothing pregnancy related on FB unless I did it. I am so glad I waited. Even though it was my first pregnancy and I was oblivious to losses - I didn't want to have to deal with the whole world of random friends if I did miscarry or worse, have a casual friend miss the "miscarry" update and ask when I am due - aauck!=. I will be even more cautious next go BFP. Like I was 150 of my most casual acquantances knowing my pain.
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October 13th, 2009, 03:03 PM
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Mommy to Matthew
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Quote:
Originally Posted by teresarunningmommy
((Hugs))) I hope AF shows up soon for you. I'm all for the MIB eraser gadget too. I'd like a fast forward button as well. Time is moving slow for me too so I feel your pain. Hang in there.
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I'll join in that as well, k? I hope AF shows for you soon- I am in the waiting game as well! My T&P are with you today in the one month anniversary
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October 13th, 2009, 05:50 PM
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Maybe AF is just around the corner and she's bringing you down so much  I'm really sorry you're having such a crummy day. As frustrating as it is, hormones are probably the culprit reeking havoc on you right now. I'm hoping and praying she's coming sooner than later and your frustration ends.
 hope your night gets a little better!
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