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October 15th, 2009, 07:51 AM
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I never ever thought I'd be this excited to see a bfn in my life! My emotions are still hit and miss and all over the place, but I am feeling a lot better.

Okay, I took a cheapie test yesterday and as soon as those started looking negative I wanted to use my FRER. I used that this morning and it was a bfn. (Well there was a hint of an evap after letting it sit an hour, but one of those squinters that would not have shown up on a camera.) I am still spotting and having a little light bleeding, but not a ton. So here's the questions for you ladies. Well, first I called the nurse at my doctor's office and asked if I could have my beta levels rechecked so the numbers would be in for my appt tomorrow afternoon. So first thing tomorrow going for that. Please pray that numbers are way down - 0 would be good, but anything less than 10 would be a huge relief to me. Okay, now onto my questions.

Since my numbers are going down (well I'm pretty sure) and I haven't had that much bleeding do you think I could have already m/c? Or do you think there is more bleeding to come? I guess I'm just wondering if you have to pass any clots with numbers as low as mine and if the bleeding and spotting I've been having for days now could have been enough to pass things. Or do you think that I will have more bleeding once my levels are back down to 0. I guess I am just wondering if I should start looking for O to happen or what? I am just really confused. I am going to ask my midwife tomorrow as well, but thought I'd throw these questions out there at you girls.
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October 15th, 2009, 08:00 AM
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I don't know the answer to your question (I was 11 1/2 weeks and needed a d&c so totally different situation) but I just want to say YAY for you BFN!!! I hope you are done with the bleeding and can move on soon. **HUGS**
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October 15th, 2009, 09:05 AM
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I'm not sure about the bleeding question, as I bled from day 1 of m/c until everything had passed, about a week and a few days. Maybe you will bleed a bit after your levels hit 0 like a normal period and then O right after, I hope so!! Either way, congrats on the BFN and hope the blood work comes back BFN too!
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October 15th, 2009, 10:49 AM
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Yaaaaaa for your cycle to start again After my hpt came back -, about 2 days later the bleeding got heavier and I passed a few clots. I was bleeding while the hpt was still +, but once it went - I passed the clots. Hope this helps.
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October 15th, 2009, 11:02 AM
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Yaaaaaa for your cycle to start again After my hpt came back -, about 2 days later the bleeding got heavier and I passed a few clots. I was bleeding while the hpt was still +, but once it went - I passed the clots. Hope this helps.
Yep, that helps. I'll see how things go tomorrow and keep you posted.
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October 15th, 2009, 11:08 AM
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I agree with Lori... When I m/c last-this month.... I had those two days of light bleeding in Sept.. (My HCG's, stayed up)... Than when I started to bleed on the 2nd of October... Once my numbers hit 0... I did have a longer, heavier cycle.. yes I did have clots.. but I never saw tissue... I hope this is the last AF you see for nine months! HUGS...
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October 15th, 2009, 09:30 PM
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With my most recent loss I had light bleeding.... not much more than spotting in the beginning and then two or three days after my negative test my bleeding got heavier and then I passed some big clots.

One thing that no one prepared me for is the fact that even after a very early loss ovulation can be delayed. After one of my losses the first cycle was 56 days and I didn't ovulate until like CD46! I wish someone had told me that earlier. With my other 5..... I had fairly normal cycles back immediately. I hope that is how things work out for you. Good luck.
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October 15th, 2009, 10:18 PM
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Once my test went negative I started having abour 12 hours of rythmic cramping. Everything passed all at once, and the bleeding and pain diminished rapidly after that.
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October 16th, 2009, 01:01 AM
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I have no idea the answers to your questions, Teresa, but I'm glad your tests are finally BFN (wow that is weird to say). My bleeding started today (light flow after spotting yesterday) so maybe we'll be cycle buddies again! Hopefully this time we get to stay in a DDC real soon! Let us know how your appt goes, k?
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