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October 16th, 2009, 08:34 PM
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Mommy to Matthew
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Well, AF is here in full force, which I know is what I've wanted, but it was a rough two nights at work. One of my co-workers has a daughter-in-law who is 5 months pregnant and she was showing everyone the pics of her growing belly and ultrasound. I was fine pretty much with the pics, but then she started talking about feeling the baby kick and I had to go into the lounge and have myself a good ole' cry fest. My charge nurse came back and got me through it, which was very nice of her, but I was trying to not let a bunch of people know about it, but I guess too late for that. Thankfully, I have an amazing group of co-workers (they've basically been my family for over 5 years since my family is so far away) so it's actually been kind of nice to have that support here. Anyways, I guess this is rambling, sorry, but the point is, AF is here in full force and I have my started a new cycle, but I'm not as happy about it as I thought I would be. I'm going to start using my OPK's as soon as AF leaves since I don't really know how my cycle will be. OK, well, I guess there wasn't much point to this post, but it actually made me feel better so thanks for reading!
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 Thank you SO MUCH, Chelsea (GraysMama) for my awesome new siggie! Forever Missing Our Angel, Matthew, born still 7/1/10 at 0820. Mommy and Daddy Love You and Miss You, Matthew
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October 16th, 2009, 09:47 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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New beginnings are bitter sweet  As this month progesses, I hope you take each day kindly to yourself and know that this new beginning is with women here that are taking it with you.
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OMG, Here we go again! Good Lord, thank you for being so gracious! For everyone of my angels have been sent back to me again!
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October 17th, 2009, 08:34 AM
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Jaque I can imagine, I still don't do well with that sort of thing... I had 2 losses this summer  it's not easy!
 Do something sinful... like drink a quad-venti-mocha or something else you don't normally do while in the 2WW or something special to pamper yourself!!! Anything to perk ya up while AF is here. I've indulged in coffee everyday!!
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October 17th, 2009, 09:47 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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HUGS. I know its a weird feeling to be happy she's here, even though you'd rather be pregnant. Big hugs! Cry when you need to, I'm glad you vented!
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Proudly breastfeeding, pumping, and cloth diapering my little sweet pea!
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October 17th, 2009, 01:52 PM
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fka teresarunningmommy
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I know you are down Jacque, but I am thrilled to have someone to stalk and cheer on again. I hope you get your bfp this cycle! Good luck hunny!
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October 17th, 2009, 03:19 PM
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It is so hard to see pictures and hear stories of women that are pregnant and how their pregnancies are going when we sit here and feel the pain of loss. I am glad you have a good support system at work and they understand when you need a break and just need to cry. I am sorry you are going through this, it is so hard. We are here for you.
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October 17th, 2009, 04:47 PM
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Jacque HUGS! Lori said it best... it is bittersweet.... I hope this is the last AF you see for 9 months!!! I hope this cycle is it for you hugs!!!
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October 17th, 2009, 06:02 PM
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Mommy to Matthew
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Thanks so much ladies for all of your support. It really does help to be going through this with others who have gone through similar situations. DH and I talked about it, and we want to start trying again this cycle, but we're not getting our hopes up since I don't know how likely it is that it would happen since my body might be a little screwed up this cycle. On to the OPK's!!!!
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Thank you SO MUCH, Chelsea (GraysMama) for my awesome new siggie! Forever Missing Our Angel, Matthew, born still 7/1/10 at 0820. Mommy and Daddy Love You and Miss You, Matthew
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