[luvmybaby03]

i need some advice: I had a miscarriage at 11 weeks in Jan, it was the hardest thing i have every been thru, all i want is another child, i have a 6 yrd old and want give her a brother or sister before she is too old lol my last af was sept 10th, im having sore breast, nausea, sleepiness,headaches and just feel horrible, i took two test last week both neg, bought another one this morning and took it, it was neg also... what do i do i cant talk to anyone about this because last time i told everyone and it made it harder on me when i lost.

i transfered this here from another board!!!

thanks

[~InHisHands~]

I'm so sorry!!! I know how you feel though. I had a m/c at 11 wks in July & I so wanted to give my first child a sibling in a reasonable amount of time but that didn't quite work out... he's 13 now!

If your last AF was Sept 10th, that just seems like a pretty long cycle to me so if that's not normal for you I'd call your dr & see if you can't get a blood pg test or see if they can't help you figure some things out. I'm so sorry (again) you are having to deal with this!

[starrsgirl]

Welcome to the board! I hope you will like it here. I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I had my second miscarriage at 10.5 weeks so right around the same time. It was SO hard...took me a good 6 months to get back on my feet.

What are your cycles normally like? Did you have any spotting or anything this time? Anything wierd like travel days or extra stress? A couple months ago, I randomly had a 40 day cycle out of nowhere! But after that, things went back to normal for me. Sometimes our bodies get goofy.

[Celena]

Welcome luv!

You can come here and talk about things, it's a very devastating thing to go thru... we've all been there once or multiple times, but can totally relate and understand your feelings. So if it is easier for you to come here and talk, please do! Allot of times people are not sensitive or compassionate to those who've had losses because they themselves cannot understand since they've never been thru it.

I'm so sorry I hope you can find what you need here!

[Celena]

Hey luvmybaby03!

Any updates? Just checking in with ya!!

[TeresaSuperMama]

(((Hugs))) You know a pregnancy loss is just so devastating. I think all of us here can relate to the pain you are feeling. Your cycles after a m/c can be kind of messed up sometimes. Hopefully you O'd later than you usually do and you still get a beautiful bfp. Good luck hun!

[Kary♥RN]

Welcome to the board... We can understand all your feelings... I know I have them... HUGS for you loss... I hope your BFP comes quickly!!! HUGS

[.:Shortcake:.]

Hugs hun. I recommend going to the doctor and getting a BT. Some women never get a positive home pregnancy test. Kup! I'm praying for you.

[Trish36]

So sorry for your loss! You are right it is the hardest thing to ever go through. I really hope that you get that BFP!! Have you tested again since your last post? You are welcome here anytime, we are here for you!!

[luvmybaby03]

i tested again tuesday morning a bfn!! i started having some light spotting(brown) tmi but only when i use the restroom. called dr today and of coarse he is off on thursday so he will call tomorrow!!

I want to thank all of you for commenting, i cried reading all the post!! Its nice to know someone knows exactly how i feel!!!

thank u