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October 21st, 2009, 11:02 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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So, DH and I haven't technically been TTC because we've been waiting on the ok from our doctor's to start trying again but we haven't really been preventing either. Plus I haven't gotten my first PPAF yet either. I recently started taking my temp again and there's a possibility that I O'd around Oct. 11th or 12th but I only started temping Oct. 9th so there isn't enough to really give me a baseline. Anyway, we went to the fetal and maternal specialist on Monday and she needs to do some bloodwork on me to see if I still have CMV (the virus that I contracted during pregnancy that was the cause of death to my son) and if I do, we need to wait until I don't have it anymore to TTC again to ensure safety to our next baby. Well, now I'm afraid that maybe I did O on the 12th and if I am pregnant and still have CMV that I have hurt my next baby. But, if the test results come back that I do still have CMV and I need to wait a long time before TTC I am going to be really discouraged.
Thanks for listening to my vent. I hope it made sense.
Oh, and here is my chart so far. The three days that I discarded are because I didn't get 3 consecutive hours of sleep before taking my temp.
Last edited by noworries; October 23rd, 2009 at 10:06 AM.
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October 21st, 2009, 01:55 PM
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HUGS... I can understand your fears... If you have concieved, I think I remember reading about the CMV... and it is NOT always a fetal demise correct? While yes If I remember the numbers are high... along with congenital and mental delays.. Thier is a chance of a healthy pregnancy... With this being said.. I can see your fears... So now matter what we will be here for you. If you are still infected we will be here to get you through the wait! HUGS
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October 22nd, 2009, 06:31 AM
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Mom of 4
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HUGS! It seems like we're always waiting on something. I hope that you get the all clear from your dr. soon and go on to have a heathly baby in no time.
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October 22nd, 2009, 07:29 AM
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fka teresarunningmommy
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Looking at your chart it's really hard to tell if you O'd or not. You could have, but I would really try not to worry about that if you can. (Easier said than done.) I hope the tests all go well for you and you can ttc right away. Please KUP and (((hugs))) I can imagine you are just really stressed right now.
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October 22nd, 2009, 08:45 AM
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I am so sorry that you had to go through that and then have to wait.. I hope that you get the all clear from your Dr.. Vent away.. That is what we are all here for...
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October 22nd, 2009, 12:02 PM
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Ok, I tested this morning to try to ease my nerves and this is what I got.
I have one more of these tests that I will take tomorrow and if it's positive I will go get a FRER. Please pray hard that I don't have CMV anymore. I am freaking out a little (ok, a lot).
I got my blood drawn today and I should have the results in a week or two as to whether I still have CMV or not.
Last edited by noworries; October 22nd, 2009 at 12:09 PM.
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October 22nd, 2009, 12:07 PM
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Veteran
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I see a BFP!!!! Congrats!!!!
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October 22nd, 2009, 12:21 PM
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Mom of 4
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That is a beautiful BFP. Praying that CMV is out of your system!
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October 22nd, 2009, 12:50 PM
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Congratulations, honey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I bet your FRER is going to look gorgeous! I'm hoping and praying that the CMV is gone. 
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October 22nd, 2009, 01:12 PM
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fka teresarunningmommy
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Congratulations! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us posted on the CMV testing.
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October 22nd, 2009, 02:20 PM
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Congratularions on the BFP and I will pray the CMV is out of your system!!! Can you call the doctor and tell them you're possibly pregnant and they can maybe rush the tests?
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October 22nd, 2009, 02:48 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I can see it! Wishing you all the best!
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October 22nd, 2009, 03:19 PM
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I see it! Good luck!
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October 22nd, 2009, 07:09 PM
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There's no mistaking it, there IS a line there... CONGRATS!
WOW, that was really fast!!!!
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October 22nd, 2009, 07:10 PM
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Beautiful BFP, congrats and the best of luck with your blood test. Im praying for you!
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October 22nd, 2009, 09:24 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Congrtas and goodluck withthe tesing!!!
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October 23rd, 2009, 03:35 AM
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Congrats hun. Praying it is out of your system.
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October 23rd, 2009, 05:36 AM
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Congrats Carrie! H & H 9 months!
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October 23rd, 2009, 09:31 AM
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Congrats on the BFP!
Carrie I tried to PM you... Can you update your title to say "Preg" Thanks!
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October 23rd, 2009, 10:07 AM
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Well, looks like the first test (actually first 2 tests because they both came up faint pos) were maybe evaps.
Here's the FRER I took today.
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