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October 25th, 2009, 10:37 AM
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So AF arrived today.... and now I'm start another cycle. I just feel like maybe getting pregnant before was a fluke. I hate my body and DH does not understand at all. And now I feel even worse because when AF showed this morning not only was I devastated but he was as well.
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October 25th, 2009, 10:59 AM
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HUGS!!! We will be days apart on our cycles.... I should be starting any day. I have months that are worse than others when AF shows... It can be so hard! I am so sorry this was a hard month for both you and dh!! HUGS to you both!
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October 25th, 2009, 11:03 AM
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Im sorry she showed too. My dh gets down too...He is usually more pumped about my temps and how Im feeling in the 2ww than I am. But with him always being concerned, it takes away some of the stress from me, cause I get to be the councelor
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October 25th, 2009, 11:27 AM
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I am so sorry hon! It is so hard, and so not fair! Hugs!
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October 25th, 2009, 11:37 AM
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(((Hugs))) I am so sorry AF found you. It seems doubly unfair when you've had a loss to have to sit and wait on a bfp. I hope you get a bfp this cycle! Good luck!
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October 25th, 2009, 01:16 PM
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October 25th, 2009, 02:32 PM
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Thank you ladies... sometimes when AF hits its harder than others. This time has been awful.
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October 25th, 2009, 04:37 PM
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I am so sorry the hag showed hun. *HUGS*
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I'm so sorry AF showed!!! And I'm sorry it's been rough this time getting her for both you and DH. You have each other though, so comfort each other, and try to look forward to next cycle and I will pray you get your sticky BFP!!!
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October 25th, 2009, 05:36 PM
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I can completely understand. I'm sure you were very hopeful using the Clomid this cycle & instead AF shows her ugly head!
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I can't say that I don't understand what you're feeling because that would be such a lie!

And to say that my DH never got disappointed would be a lie too... he has, but tried not to show it or let me know since I take things kinda hard.

GIGANTIC to you, I'm sorry that she showed and it's a new cycle. Wish there wasn't ever a problem with fertility for women who want their babies so bad!!! I'm so so sorry!!!! Our bodies are just the way they are, we have such a limited window each month unlike guys who are fertile 24-7... thankfully there's doctors out there that can check into why it's taking a while longer for some of us it's not comforting exactly right now, I know how freaking frustrating AF showing is. It can be down right depressing! And ya know what that's ok to feel that way! Hope the frustration, disappointment is fast passing and you're on your way to baby making (praying that you get a BFP sooner than later!!! July is a good month )
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October 26th, 2009, 12:35 AM
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Howdy Shortcake, long time no chat So sorry to come onto JM and to hear you are so down (((hugs))) AF really does suck when you don't want her. Be patient with your dh, he is hurting too and I'm sure it wasn't a fluke last time... On the positive side I think it is the opposite, at least you know you 'can' get pregnant so chin up, it will happen soon xoxo
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October 26th, 2009, 12:57 AM
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I am so sorry Shortcake I know AF is hard anytime but I know you were particularly hopeful with the clomid. I really hope you get your BFP soon xx
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