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October 30th, 2009, 03:15 AM
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This baby decided not to stick around. Literally.

Went to pee at 4:30 this morning, POAS and then looked down (TMI) and saw the big clot in the toilet and the blood. Just AF, she came a day early. And of course a negative HPT. Cramps have kicked in...with a vengence.

Stupid uterus.

I'm OK, for now. I'm just numb.

Do I even bother to tell my Dr.? Are they going to even count this one?

I'm on cd1 - at least I'm back with my cycle buddies. That makes me happy.


......and......

I am so p#%@ed off at my body right now. I had the clot and bleeding and cramping as described above early this morning. And now nothing. Nada. Dry. Cramps have stopped. AF has stopped.

So come on already! Bring it on!!! I'm ready for you witch! Let's just get this over with!!! Don't make me wait. Listen uterus, do not start something you can't finish!

I may be losing my mind, ladies, because I really do want to yell at my uterus.

I feel sick. And I'm at work. And...and...I feel sick.
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October 30th, 2009, 03:21 AM
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Oh Krystal, I am so very sorry It just isn't fair I don't think it would hurt to mention it to your Dr, I know nothing can be done but I think it is best that they know.

I am so very sorry again.
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October 30th, 2009, 03:25 AM
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Krystal I am so sorry *HUGS* I would mention it hun if you need testing done later or anything it will help iykwim take care hun.
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October 30th, 2009, 04:46 AM
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Oh hun I am so so sorry! Its just not fair. I would mention it to your doctor. Maybe they will do some testing now?
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October 30th, 2009, 04:53 AM
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Oh! That's terrible! I'm so sorry
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October 30th, 2009, 04:55 AM
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Krystal, this just breaks my heart. Im sorry, and yes you should mention to your dr. They need to count this one in for testing purposes. This is just not fair, Im speachless honey.......
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October 30th, 2009, 05:37 AM
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Krystal I'm sorry! You should definately tell your dr. about it. It totally counts.
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October 30th, 2009, 05:54 AM
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I am sorry Krystal. I would definitely tell your doctor. They will probably classify it as "chemical" (I hate that word) but that does not mean it was nothing or that its not something you and your doctor should be concerned about. Perhaps you can get some preliminary testing done this cycle to see if there is anything going on.
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October 30th, 2009, 05:58 AM
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I did not want to open this post. I am so sorry and wish I could hug you right now. We are here for you.
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October 30th, 2009, 06:30 AM
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I am so sorry hun.. I would definitely tell your Dr cause it was a pregnancy.. Hang in there hun..
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October 30th, 2009, 06:38 AM
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Oh, Krystal, I was dreading reading this. I am so upset for you! It's just not fair. Big big hugs for you, hon!
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October 30th, 2009, 06:42 AM
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I am so sorry Krystal. Definitely tell your doctor.
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October 30th, 2009, 06:58 AM
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Krystal - I am so sorry and I know nothing will help. I would talk to your dr. I think it is still classified as a loss, even if it is early.

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October 30th, 2009, 07:09 AM
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Just wanted to say your rant is totally justified, and maybe you should try to take part of the day off if you can? It must be awful to be at work when you just want to be home on the couch. So so sorry hon!
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October 30th, 2009, 07:15 AM
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Im so sorry, and yes you should call the Dr and tell them.
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October 30th, 2009, 07:46 AM
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Oh Krystal. I'm so, so sorry. I would definitely tell your doctor and if I were you I wouldn't stay at work today.
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October 30th, 2009, 08:48 AM
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October 30th, 2009, 09:13 AM
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Krystal... I am so sorry... that is just so NOT FAIR!!!.. And Yes you have to mention it to your Dr. My first loss.. was just what happened to you.... HUGS I am so sorry... This just suck-s!
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I HATE to see this, just HATE it!

DAMMIT, what can I say to make you feel better? I'm sorry, dammit it's just not fair

I'm sorry!!!
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