[katinagj]

the overwhelming feeling that you're never going to get to keep your baby to full term? I feel like my body is broken...for some reason today is being very hard on me..

[Kary♥RN]

When you find that answer... can you pass it on?? I sent an e-mail today.. and in it I wrote.. after 3 losses.. it almost has come to the point.. where I know I will try.. and I know m/c is a very, very, very good posiability. My last three pregnancies have ended in M/C... so what does that mean.. I have a good chance for the 4th to end in m/c? I feel like both me and Dh are broke... his swimmers are well, not the best. And me? Who knows what and why I can't stay pregnant. HUGS to you, and I'm sorry you are feeling like this today! HUGS..I wish I could say to you it will get better... and you won't feel broke... I hope that is the case one day!

[Trish36]

HUGS! I don't think any of us have an answer for you. The only thing that will make us feel better is to have that baby in our arms.

[Celena]

I know you asked how we get past the feeling "will I ever carry to term" but here's where I'm going to start off in reply to you honey....

I think for all of us we wonder if *IT* will happen again, the next time we get pregnant...

No one has that answer, there's nothing that can truly prevent a miscarriage. If it is going to happen it is going to happen with medications or without. Even the best in their field can't exactly say why they happen, they "think" it's chromosomal.

It's just something that each of us will have to try to get past, to move on... accept that there's things we will NEVER understand and will remain unexplainable. Some things just DO NOT have a scientific, rational answer.

I don't know what to say to you to make you feel better, I don't know the answer to that Katina... it's one of those unknown things, you cannot predict what your body will do when it get's pregnant again.

Allot of these "chemical" pregnancies are ones that don't implant so that might be an answer for some... ones that are a little further along well those are more than likely chromosomal. There's NOTHING saying your body is broken. You just don't know, so don't assume it is you... ok?

It's NOT an easy thing to go thru... There are allot of good info out there, if you look towards the top of this forum there is an "Info Spot" browse thru the titles and there's some really helpful coping ones in there. I hope it helps.... to validate or put into words something that you yourself cannot explain or understand.

[KDD]

I'm past wondering if it will stick and onto wondering if it will happen. There is always something for us to worry about. I'm trying to stay positive now.

[valerie26]

I still haven't gotten past it!