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November 2nd, 2009, 10:10 PM
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Hello my lovely cycle buddies!
So ok, what CD are you on?
When do you think you O'd?
Are you in the 2WW?
Have you tested?
What is on your minds right now?
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November 3rd, 2009, 05:19 AM
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Hello everyone, Im on cd17, 6dpo, in the 2ww. I go tomorrow for my progesterone testing and will be testing on Thursday at 8dpo until I hit 11dpo. My lp is 12 days, so I usually get a bfp between 8 and 11dpo. If the progesterone is extremely low ( I dont think it will be), that might alter my testing a bit, but who am I kidding, even if theres no chance in h*** I will still POAS
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November 3rd, 2009, 05:33 AM
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I'm on CD1. sniff sniff. Still debating whether to continue with MA or not.
I know this cycle I am not taking any meds. I want to see if my CM comes back to normal. But I might still go to the clinic for monitoring, so that this 3rd cycle is under my belt and I can meet with the dr. to discuss any future treatments. Then I can decide whether to proceed or not.
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November 3rd, 2009, 08:58 AM
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Hey! I'm on CD 23/ 8 DPO. I'm 99% sure I O'd on the 26th. i plan on testing this thurs (10 DPO). I have 6 days from today until AF is due... ugh...I wish it would just hurry up & get here! DH is going out of town this weekend, so hopefully I'll have a big surprise waiting when he gets home sunday night!!!
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November 3rd, 2009, 10:05 AM
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Hi!! I'm on CD 20, and am sick  Possibly H1N1 since I got the seasonal flu shot, but not sure. I skipped a few days of OPK's unfortunately, but today still have EWCM so I don't think I missed it, but not sure. Haven't been able to temp since I've been running fevers. My doctor had told me to wait a cycle after my m/c anyways, so maybe this is my body's way of saying it agrees, who knows?
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November 3rd, 2009, 10:06 AM
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Kelly, Massachusetts Mama
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I think I am about 5dpo if I am counting right. I won't test this cycle until 10 or 11 dpo and I am sure it will BFN but I know I can't wait until Nov 14 when I am due for AF.  I am trying to not really think about any early pg symptoms, just pretending I am status quo except eating better and avoiding stuff just in case. I am apprehensive about getting a BFP, I don't know how I will deal with the worry everyday that something is going to happen. We will cross that bridge when we come to it I guess.
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November 3rd, 2009, 11:09 AM
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Mommy to Matthew
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Just thouht I'd update and say I got my + OPK so should be Oing by Thursday! Yay! Now if only I would feel better and we could get some BDing in
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November 6th, 2009, 11:04 AM
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I'm on CD24, approx 10-11dpo, I FEEL HORRIBLE!!!
Extremely nausous, dizzy, pukey, tired, boobs HURT (not sore when you push on them, they HURT with only my bra touching them... why tho???) I don't have a fever so I don't think it's the flu altho not everyone I know who's had it has not had a fever.
IDK what to think, I guess AF is due anywhere from 2-6 days from today... I used an inet cheapie and it was - this morning. I ws drinking tons of ginger ale last night tho... but who the frick knows. I never have gotten a + before 14dpo and even then it was super light.
I'm so frustrated right now with the FM pain & now feeling so nauseated / pukey... if it were from pregnancy I would totally welcome it, but not knowing why I don't feel good sucks so I just treat it like I'm sick and have been upping my Vitamin C, trying to rest.
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November 6th, 2009, 11:56 AM
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fka teresarunningmommy
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Hello my lovely cycle buddies!
So ok, what CD are you on? I'm 9dpo not sure what cd at the moment.
When do you think you O'd? I am definitely 9 dpo. I have a nice clear shift on my chart.
Are you in the 2WW? yep
Have you tested? Yep, bfn still
What is on your minds right now? I am going nuts waiting.
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November 6th, 2009, 01:18 PM
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So ok, what CD are you on? CD 26, 11 DPO
When do you think you O'd? 99% sure on CD 15 (monday 10/26)
Are you in the 2WW? yes & hating every freakin minute of it
Have you tested? yes, 3 times- all BFN
What is on your minds right now?
I just want tuesday to hurry up & get here because that's when AF is expected. My last preg. didn't show up until 17 DPO, but I wasn't expecting that one! I only thought to test then, because I was spotting & I NEVER spot.... I don't know if it would have shown up before then, since I wasn't looking for it.... we weren't even trying back then!
Also- I'm really curious about these blue veins on my boobies.... weird
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November 6th, 2009, 01:25 PM
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Im on 9dpo, and have recieved 4 blue dye test bfps/evaps and 2 frer "maybe's". I will let you know what happens tonight when I test. Wish me luck!
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November 6th, 2009, 03:35 PM
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The FRER's dont look positive to me. I thought I had seen a "shadowy line" but I pulled them appart and I dont color on the back of them. So, Im going to asume the Equates were evaps, Im ok though. I will test again in the am and let everyone know!
Good luck to all of you testing out there!
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Thank you Shortcake for my beautiful siggy..]
OMG, Here we go again! Good Lord, thank you for being so gracious! For everyone of my angels have been sent back to me again!


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November 6th, 2009, 05:31 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Just stalking you. ((Hugs)) on the stupid FRER's..... Booooooooooooooooooo
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November 6th, 2009, 05:36 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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GOOD LUCK LORI!!!! I am hoping this is it!!!! I can't wait for an update in the AM...
Com'on BFP!!!!
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November 6th, 2009, 08:38 PM
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Ooooooo Good luck Lori, definitely let us know what's up!
I hope there's a slew of BFP's here soon
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November 7th, 2009, 08:40 AM
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Heres my saga, from AIP
I backed it up with FRER twice, stark white, no line. But I knew it would do this before I tested, just wanted to see something else besides a bfn. Evaps will hold me over until AF comes, lol
same test
10 dpo, I dont know what to think. I have gotten 5 of these all together now. They are wider and definietely blue, but my FRER's say no. Im assuming not pg until the FRER has a line or AF comes. I have never not been pregnant and not gotten a FRER line. But boy these are convincing!
I suck at this copy and paste stuff, please just go to the AIP boards and take a look.........
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Thank you Shortcake for my beautiful siggy..]
OMG, Here we go again! Good Lord, thank you for being so gracious! For everyone of my angels have been sent back to me again!


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November 7th, 2009, 06:05 PM
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Lovin life and family
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That would sure be a lot of evaps I think  . But I am hopeful for you.
I am on CD21 and the spotting has started so I am going to assume I am out again this month. A good friend  said maybe it isn't connected with us not getting pregnant and the spotting is something else all together. I sure hope so and am trying to hang on to that advice. I haven't tested and won't waste a test until AF is due and not here. Next month is temping and opks and the works and DH will just have to suck it up LOL. Next cycle is #4  . 8 months since our loss, I just didn't think it would take so long or at least I hoped it wouldn't.
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November 7th, 2009, 06:52 PM
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Jess, I think once you get going full swing again, your bfp will come VERY quick! and I agree with your friend, if your progesterone tests came back good, than the spotting is just "quincedental". I cant wait to see your bfp and you better start living it up girl, your time is coming!
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Thank you Shortcake for my beautiful siggy..]
OMG, Here we go again! Good Lord, thank you for being so gracious! For everyone of my angels have been sent back to me again!


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November 7th, 2009, 08:25 PM
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Lovin life and family
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LOL your the best Lori  . I won't be far behind you.
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November 8th, 2009, 02:12 PM
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Mom of 4
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Good luck ladies who are testing. Hope to see some more BFP this month!!!
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