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November 5th, 2009, 08:42 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm using FRERs, but not always fmu. When I got pregnant the first time, I got a bfp in the evening. Unmistakable bfp. No idea how many DPO I was at that point. I don't know how many DPO I am right now either. If I'm not pregnant, I just want AF to hurry up and show so I can have another chance. If my period doesn't show in the next few days and I'm still getting bfns, I'll go see a doctor.
Pictures of an evap on second page of comments.
Last edited by SkyBaby; November 9th, 2009 at 07:21 AM.
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November 5th, 2009, 11:29 AM
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Waiting for my turn.
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I hope you get a BFP real soon.
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November 5th, 2009, 11:57 AM
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Kelly, Massachusetts Mama
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Hang in there, hon. I got a BFP 2 weeks after AF was due with my son. So there is hope!
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November 5th, 2009, 12:42 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Hoping you get that BFP soon.
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November 5th, 2009, 12:47 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am sorry you are still getting bfn's. My cycles were off for the first few months after my loss so hopefully you will get a BFP soon (like in the next day or 2).
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November 5th, 2009, 12:58 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Thanks so much ladies.. It's just really frustrating.. I guess you all know how it goes. Kelsue- That's a relief.. glad to know I'm not the only one who may get a late bfp. I'll keep testing every few days or so until either I get that positive or AF comes.
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November 6th, 2009, 10:34 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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5 days late now and still no AF! (watch- by saying this i just jinxed it and she's gonna show today  )
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November 6th, 2009, 10:59 AM
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Kelly, Massachusetts Mama
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Oh, I hope it's just a late BFP. I remember how frustrating it was, my sister's wedding was 2 days before I got the BFP and I couldn't drink there and I was thinking if I am not pregnant, I am going to be mad that I didn't at least get to have some champagne or something. When I got the BFP, I couldn't really believe it because of all the BFNs before it (like 12 of them, I was a bit obsessed with POAS). I hope you have good news soon!!
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November 6th, 2009, 11:51 AM
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fka teresarunningmommy
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(((hugs))) I hope you get a bfp soon. Hang in there.
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November 6th, 2009, 03:50 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Just checking in?? Hope you get that BFP!!!
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November 6th, 2009, 07:14 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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AF is still MIA. Yay.  Breasts hurt now too. Tested today. BFN (not fmu). >.< I'm trying so hard to not get my hopes up (DH is too) but it's getting harder and harder with every day that goes by.  Thanks so much for your support ladies.. you folks have kept me sane. I'll update this post if/when I get a bfp or if/when AF shows.
I'll be retesting in 2 or 3 days. I just got a 3 pack of FRERs. I have 2 left now.
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November 6th, 2009, 08:04 PM
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Lovin life and family
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I hope you get a BFP soon.
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November 6th, 2009, 08:25 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I hope you get your bfp soon!
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November 7th, 2009, 08:50 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Tested this morning with FRER and fmu. Even DH is seeing the second line. He's sure he sees one, but it's very faint. Too faint to show up in a picture. I think it's an evap personally. Poor DH.. he just wont take no..or a negative.. for an answer. Neither will I. I see the line he's talking about. He also says that faint line wasn't there on the test I took yesterday. Maybe it's the beginnings of a bfp!! I guess we'll see.. I'll keep you all posted.
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November 7th, 2009, 02:23 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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A line is a line with FRER's!!! I think some congratulations are in order.  Can't wait to see the pictures in the upcoming days.
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November 7th, 2009, 05:05 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Oh I HOPE THIS IS YOUR BFP!!! I can't wait to see 2 beautiflu lines!!
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November 7th, 2009, 06:15 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Will be a week late tomorrow!!! I'll be testing again in a few days. I'll keep you all posted!
thanks so much ladies!!! You have really helped me stay sane through this whole mess!!
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November 7th, 2009, 06:30 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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A FEW DAYS??? You are so strong!  I would be peeing on two sticks a day!!!!
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November 7th, 2009, 07:45 PM
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crazy mom of 4
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Skybaby, I'm also planning on taking tests every few days until AF shows...I wish I could just wait it out for a week or two, but dang it, it's hard!!! I plan on waiting until Monday or Tuesday morning to test again if AF isn't here...keeping my fingers crossed 
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November 7th, 2009, 07:50 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Ack, I haven't checked this thread in a few days so I am just now seeing that you and DH saw a faint line. I so hope that line gets darker on your next test.
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4 days late and still getting bfns! *pics added*
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