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November 6th, 2009, 11:01 AM
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Kelly, Massachusetts Mama
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November 6th, 2009, 11:53 AM
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fka teresarunningmommy
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Okay, I don't mean to sound dumb, but unless your parents are sleeping in your bedroom I don't see why you can't. Dh and I have no problems with being quiet in fact sometimes the act of being sneaky is a turn on. I wouldn't let my parents or inlaws get in the way of ttc.
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November 6th, 2009, 12:17 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Originally Posted by teresarunningmommy
Okay, I don't mean to sound dumb, but unless your parents are sleeping in your bedroom I don't see why you can't. Dh and I have no problems with being quiet in fact sometimes the act of being sneaky is a turn on. I wouldn't let my parents or inlaws get in the way of ttc.
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Ditto
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November 6th, 2009, 01:58 PM
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Kelly, Massachusetts Mama
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Our house is SMAALLL.  One floor, they are 2 rooms down. I dunno.... I wish I was brave!
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November 6th, 2009, 02:02 PM
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fka teresarunningmommy
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Originally Posted by kelsue
Our house is SMAALLL. One floor, they are 2 rooms down. I dunno.... I wish I was brave! |
Pillows and the floor work really good for this one. We just move off of the bed. Less noise. You can do it  Of course if you aren't in a hurry about getting pregnant I understand, but you should have read my story about figuring out how to squeeze in bd time while we were traveling in our bus with 9 people in it camping. We somehow pulled that one off, but we have gotten to be experts at being very quiet when we need to.
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November 6th, 2009, 02:07 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I agree.... sneaking can be fun!!!! I have an 18 yo... and we have to be quiet... and sometimes it is fun.. If you have a bedroom.. DH says I have to go lie down "I have a headache" And in a few... you say let me take him some tylenol.. and I want to get on something warm...(OR WHAT EVER.. that you have to change) Or you say you have a head ache... go get some BD done... stay laying down for 20 mins... and come back and say I couldn't sleep... It is do-able!!!! Hope is not all lost!!!
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November 6th, 2009, 02:13 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I've BD'd while my sister and brother-in-law were sleeping in a bed in the same room as we were in a hotel room. It's doable.
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November 6th, 2009, 02:28 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Originally Posted by kelsue
I just looked at my chart and saw that my fertile days for November are on and around Thanksgiving. If I don't get pg this cycle, I can't BD those days because my parents are staying with us. And the next cycle is Christmas time when we stay with my in-laws. UGH! That means unless we are creative or get a hotel or something, I can't TTC again until January. I better be pregnant now or I am going to be really upset to wait that long.  |
I'm a graduate from the board but I still come and lurk. I had to comment on this. After my miscarriage, I had to have 2 d and c's. Which meant our 1st cycle trying was December. We were living in Virginia and flying home to stay with our parents. I took OPK's with me and got a smiley face Christmas day. We weren't able to bd that day but later that night in his mom's basement...my little Wyatt was conceived. We could hear her walking around and had to be super quiet but I wanted a baby so bad I could of cared less if she walked down there at that point Good luck...be creative like the other girls said!!!
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November 6th, 2009, 02:45 PM
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fka teresarunningmommy
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Originally Posted by Kary♥RN
I agree.... sneaking can be fun!!!! I have an 18 yo... and we have to be quiet... and sometimes it is fun.. If you have a bedroom.. DH says I have to go lie down "I have a headache" And in a few... you say let me take him some tylenol.. and I want to get on something warm...(OR WHAT EVER.. that you have to change) Or you say you have a head ache... go get some BD done... stay laying down for 20 mins... and come back and say I couldn't sleep... It is do-able!!!! Hope is not all lost!!!
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OMG! ROFLMBO literally cracking up! We have soooooooo done that one before!
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November 6th, 2009, 02:50 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I feel your pain. We will be staying with my parents this thanksgiving and dh's family this christmas. Talk about annoying.
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November 6th, 2009, 05:52 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Amanda - I love your story!
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