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November 10th, 2009, 03:51 PM
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Kelly, Massachusetts Mama
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Just wondering if you are having any luck yet with those pesky HPTs. Hoping for you!!
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November 10th, 2009, 04:11 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I just peed on a FRER Digi.. still waiting for it to change.......
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 I'm 9 days late. I don't understand what's going on.  I'm beginning to think my cycles are still really irregular and my period isn't even due yet. That is the only thing that would explain it.  I'm losing hope.
Thanks for checking tho.
Last edited by SkyBaby; November 10th, 2009 at 04:19 PM.
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November 10th, 2009, 04:28 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am so sorry. I hope your cycles regulate for you soon (or you get your BFP sooner!)
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November 10th, 2009, 04:34 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Originally Posted by missy123
I am so sorry. I hope your cycles regulate for you soon (or you get your BFP sooner!)
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If I am gonna get a bfp, it better happen in the next day or two. BFN after BFN after BFN when I keep expecting BFPs are really crushing blows. They just keep eating away at the hope I had. Why did I let my hopes get up?
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November 10th, 2009, 04:44 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by SkyBaby
If I am gonna get a bfp, it better happen in the next day or two. BFN after BFN after BFN when I keep expecting BFPs are really crushing blows. They just keep eating away at the hope I had. Why did I let my hopes get up?
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You got your hopes up because you want nothing more than to be pregnant again and give birth to a healthy baby. You want to gain back a little of what was taken from you with your loss and to stop feeling like you have failed somehow with BFN after BFN. Was I close? I only say that because that is how I feel month after month. I see girls graduate out of here right away and don't get me wrong I am honestly super happy for them. But when will it be my turn?
I really hope you stop getting the BFN's....
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November 10th, 2009, 04:54 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Originally Posted by missy123
You got your hopes up because you want nothing more than to be pregnant again and give birth to a healthy baby. You want to gain back a little of what was taken from you with your loss and to stop feeling like you have failed somehow with BFN after BFN. Was I close? I only say that because that is how I feel month after month. I see girls graduate out of here right away and don't get me wrong I am honestly super happy for them. But when will it be my turn?
I really hope you stop getting the BFN's....
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That's exactly what's going through my mind. You nailed it.
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November 10th, 2009, 04:59 PM
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Kelly, Massachusetts Mama
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I'm so sorry!! I know it must totally suck to keep getting them. I am still holding out hope though that you are just a later BFPer like I was. Don't give up hope just yet! Thinking of you, hon
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November 10th, 2009, 05:01 PM
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Yup, it sucks and I am sorry.... It will be your turn soon.
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November 10th, 2009, 05:07 PM
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I'm sorry about the BFN's, hon  I'm still holding out hope for you!
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November 10th, 2009, 05:19 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Originally Posted by kelsue
I'm so sorry!! I know it must totally suck to keep getting them. I am still holding out hope though that you are just a later BFPer like I was. Don't give up hope just yet! Thinking of you, hon 
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I hope I am too. I just remembered something significant. Why I got pregnant last time was because I stopped in the middle of a month while on the BCP (Yaz). That was mid June. (Around the 13th or so) Stopped taking it for that month in case I was pregnant but tested fairly regularly. I'm guessing my stopping the pill like that and thus inducing Ovulation was when I conceived. I did get a positive on the 12 or so of July. It took a whole month (if not a month, at least a few weeks) after ovulating to know if I was pregnant! (That's assuming I did in fact O when I thought I did.)
With that in mind.. It's been over 6 weeks since my last period. I have no idea when I Od this cycle though. I was trying to temp but too many things kept getting in the way. I think I got just a tiny bit of EWCM on the 15th or so. (I used to get a lot on O day before I started the pill but the pill seems to have dried me up) If that's the case, I'm still a week away from being able to get a truly accurate result on a test.
That's a stretch I know, but makes me feel a little better though. Right now, that's all I got so I'm clinging to it as if my life (and my sanity) depends on it.
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Originally Posted by missy123
Yup, it sucks and I am sorry.... It will be your turn soon.
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It may yet be my turn this month. Read the long rambling reply I typed to Kelsue.
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November 10th, 2009, 06:22 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Aww...I'm sorry you're not getting bfp's yet...but like your last explanation, maybe you just ovulated later...is there anyway to get a bloodtest done?
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November 10th, 2009, 06:27 PM
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Sorry honey, it's super frustrating... but perhaps your body was trying to regulate coming off of those bcp's still and the mc. Our bodies are amazing and perfect in their own right, but not always logically to us.
So KUP and I hope that you get an answer SOON!
I'm right there with you honey!!!
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November 10th, 2009, 07:02 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Quote:
Originally Posted by abi
Aww...I'm sorry you're not getting bfp's yet...but like your last explanation, maybe you just ovulated later...is there anyway to get a bloodtest done?
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I hope that's why. :/
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Originally Posted by Celena
Sorry honey, it's super frustrating... but perhaps your body was trying to regulate coming off of those bcp's still and the mc. Our bodies are amazing and perfect in their own right, but not always logically to us.
So KUP and I hope that you get an answer SOON!
I'm right there with you honey!!!
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That's what I'm thinking. I don't think my period is due yet so I may not actually be late. My boobs are still hurting, but I can't use that as eps since the MC. My body is confusing the daylights out of me.
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November 10th, 2009, 08:33 PM
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I'm so sorry sweetie!!  I hope you get some answer soon, but I really hope it comes in the form of a :Bfp:
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November 11th, 2009, 04:46 AM
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Kelly, Massachusetts Mama
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*shakes fist at your uterus* DO SOMETHING!!  It is so frustrating! Keep us posted, I still am hoping for you!
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November 11th, 2009, 07:13 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Originally Posted by Oreobaby
I'm so sorry sweetie!!  I hope you get some answer soon, but I really hope it comes in the form of a :Bfp:
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Thanks.. me too. Tested yesterday with my digi.. bfn. I'm testing again in a few days-a week. In the mean time, I'm going to go to the dollar store and raid them for tests so i can still POAS.
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Originally Posted by kelsue
*shakes fist at your uterus* DO SOMETHING!!  It is so frustrating! Keep us posted, I still am hoping for you!
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I want to go to the doctor, but DH is trying to get me to wait to test for an entire week. I hate my body. Tested with my FRER digi yesterday. BFN. I still have one more, but because they're so expensive, I'm gonna save it and just raid the dollar store for tests and POAS like every day until then.
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November 11th, 2009, 08:51 AM
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Kelly, Massachusetts Mama
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I know, I actually looked at BJs today to see if they sold FRERs in bulk at a cheaper price. No luck. They are so expensive!!
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November 11th, 2009, 09:17 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Quote:
Originally Posted by kelsue
I know, I actually looked at BJs today to see if they sold FRERs in bulk at a cheaper price. No luck. They are so expensive!!
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Aint that the truth. The dollar store was out when I went to check a day or two ago so I don't think they'd have gotten a new shipment between now and then. I guess we'll see.
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November 11th, 2009, 03:15 PM
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November 11th, 2009, 04:22 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Originally Posted by ~InHisHands~
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Thanks.. I need that..
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