Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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November 11th, 2009, 07:05 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: NWArkansas
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*also posted in DDC july 2010
I still haven't started my miscarriage, but I'm now just waiting. I was suppose to go in for HCG re-draw this morning, however after getting a completely negative result on a hpt, I've decided I have enough information to conclude that this is chemical. I hope I am not scalded by the nurse, but I'd rather not pay for the test when I've done my own research.
I have not found any progression of anyone showing what it looks like over a week, so I wanted to share for those, like myself who wanted to know what it looks like...
DH and I have decided that we will keep trying, and keep our hopes up for another day.
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Melly, 27. Wife to Jim. We're pregnant! VBAC hopeful after 2 c-sections
Living and loving life in NW Arkansas, USA
Mom to Logan, my beautiful angel son. 7/8/07 - 2/19/08
Collin , born on Oct. 15th 2010, 9.11 lbs. 100% breastfeeding, cloth diapered, all organic goodness.
Baby #3 on the way. EDD May 21st, 2012
SAHM, Student (science major). Volunteer (Arkansas Childrens Hospital).
Facebook :http://www.facebook.com/melly.jeffers
Family blog: http://mellyjimandcounting.blogspot.com/
My first son Logan, 7/8/07 - 2/19/08.
6 months in the NICU, 1 month at home, missed and thought about every single day.
Logans blog: l ogansworld.blog.com
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November 11th, 2009, 07:16 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jun 2009
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I'm so sorry.  I hope you do get your miracle soon.
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November 11th, 2009, 08:05 AM
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Mom of 4
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Ontario, Canada
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I'm sorry Melly! HUGS!!! Thanks for posting your pics.
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November 11th, 2009, 08:35 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Southern PA
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I am so sorry Melly.
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November 11th, 2009, 08:41 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: illinois
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Im so sorry, but you are such a strong woman to post these pics and share with everyone out there your story. These pics of your tests will help so many women who face the same situation. My heart is heavy for you, and I pray that your sticky bfp is just waiting around the corner for you.
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November 11th, 2009, 09:15 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: NWArkansas
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Thanks for your encouragement.  I'm sad, but perfectly at peace with this. I learned from loving my son through his illness, that true love, that only a parent can give, is absolutely unconditional. Though this baby-to-be only lived for a short while, I loved it wholeheartedly, and that means loving your baby-to-be or child for whomever they need to be. If this little baby-to-be was not healthy then I accept that, and cherish the idea of it coming to be, even if it only lasted for about a week. I don't know if that makes any sense, but it does to me.
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Melly, 27. Wife to Jim. We're pregnant! VBAC hopeful after 2 c-sections
Living and loving life in NW Arkansas, USA
Mom to Logan, my beautiful angel son. 7/8/07 - 2/19/08
Collin , born on Oct. 15th 2010, 9.11 lbs. 100% breastfeeding, cloth diapered, all organic goodness.
Baby #3 on the way. EDD May 21st, 2012
SAHM, Student (science major). Volunteer (Arkansas Childrens Hospital).
Facebook :http://www.facebook.com/melly.jeffers
Family blog: http://mellyjimandcounting.blogspot.com/
My first son Logan, 7/8/07 - 2/19/08.
6 months in the NICU, 1 month at home, missed and thought about every single day.
Logans blog: l ogansworld.blog.com
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November 11th, 2009, 12:53 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
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Thanks for posting... I am so truly Sorry! HUGS!
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November 11th, 2009, 03:21 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: US - Alabama
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I have to add that I checked out Logan's blog & WOW! He is such a handsome little guy! I'm so sorry for your loss!
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November 11th, 2009, 08:13 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2007
Location: Southern Iowa
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I'm so sorry Melly. I also just experience a chemical and would have been due in July too. My tests never got quite as dark as yours did even, so I never posted a progression like that.
I'm sorry you had to go through this.
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