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November 11th, 2009, 04:32 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I just tested with a dollar tree test. BFN.  I have 4 more tests and my last digi, so I've got enough for now.
As I have explained before, I had taken yaz for over a year by the time I stopped half way through a pack after missing 3 consecutive pills. That is what led to my first pregnancy. My body never had a chance to regulate itself after the yaz. Miscarrying through me even more out of whack. Because of that, I'm thinking my period isn't due for this cycle yet which means I'm not late and probably not pregnant. Heck, I'm not even sure if I ovulated this cycle. I got so little ewcm for only one day. Since I wasn't using opks regularly or temping consistently, I guess we wont know until it's confirmed I'm either pregnant or not. I'm so tired waiting around.
This is where I'll be posting my updates up until AF starts or I get a bfp. Not looking too hopeful at this point. No sign of AF either. I don't know what's going on with me It's been nearly 7 weeks since my last period!
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November 11th, 2009, 04:38 PM
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I hope you get an answer soon. This must be so frustrating for you. HUGS
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November 11th, 2009, 04:39 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Originally Posted by chispaza
I hope you get an answer soon. This must be so frustrating for you. HUGS
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thanks.. at this point I'll be happy with either. I just need a stinkin answer!!
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November 11th, 2009, 08:31 PM
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Im so sorry this is so frustrating. I think a blood test is in order for you at this point. And maybe if no pregnancy, a jump start to a fresh cycle. Maybe try and not stress about taking the hpts for at least a couple of more days, that might help, I dont know.........I guess I would probably be testing every day too......Praying for that BFP to just jump off the test stick for you here in the next couple of days!
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November 12th, 2009, 08:03 AM
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Originally Posted by momof4lopez
Im so sorry this is so frustrating. I think a blood test is in order for you at this point. And maybe if no pregnancy, a jump start to a fresh cycle. Maybe try and not stress about taking the hpts for at least a couple of more days, that might help, I dont know.........I guess I would probably be testing every day too......Praying for that BFP to just jump off the test stick for you here in the next couple of days!
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Thanks so much.. I could use lots of prayers at this point. I tested this morning at 11 days late. BFN. That was with fmu but a dollar store test though.
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November 12th, 2009, 10:41 AM
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I definately think you ought to get a blood test done...it seems weird that you're still getting bfns being this late...I really hope you can get some answers soon! It must be soo frustrating and discouraging!
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November 12th, 2009, 12:09 PM
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Originally Posted by abi
I definately think you ought to get a blood test done...it seems weird that you're still getting bfns being this late...I really hope you can get some answers soon! It must be soo frustrating and discouraging!
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I want to get in for a blood test, but dh thinks I should wait another week.. It is frustrating and discouraging... I really hate this... I just want to know...
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November 12th, 2009, 12:14 PM
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I think you should go get a blood test too. I can imagine your frustration...HUGS. I hope you find out some answers soon!!! I'm praying for your BFP!
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November 12th, 2009, 01:37 PM
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I think you should go get a blood test too. I can imagine your frustration...HUGS. I hope you find out some answers soon!!! I'm praying for your BFP!
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DH is trying to convince me to wait a week before I get a test, but I don't think I can.
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November 12th, 2009, 03:06 PM
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I think at this point I would call my Dr and just give them a heads up and see what they want me to do.. Blood work, wait, ????... HUGS.. this is so frustrating!
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November 12th, 2009, 08:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Kary♥RN
I think at this point I would call my Dr and just give them a heads up and see what they want me to do.. Blood work, wait, ????... HUGS.. this is so frustrating!
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Maybe I'll do that tomorrow or Monday so we know what's happening. Just to call and see.
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November 13th, 2009, 01:34 AM
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Sorry you are stuck in limbo  I would go for a blood test as well. A couple of times I had a longer cycle (out of nowhere) but AF was never more than a week late.
Good luck!
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November 13th, 2009, 02:04 AM
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Hmm waiting nOOooOO I would go see the doctor otherwise you will go mad hun goodluck!!!
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November 13th, 2009, 04:43 AM
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I'm sure this must be so frustrating for you! How long are your cycles usually? You said you weren't really regular after your m/c.....have you gone this long before? I would call your doctor and discuss your options and concerns with him/her and see what he/she recommends. Good luck!
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November 13th, 2009, 06:52 AM
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Originally Posted by Mel1979
Sorry you are stuck in limbo I would go for a blood test as well. A couple of times I had a longer cycle (out of nowhere) but AF was never more than a week late.
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My cycle has never been this long before. It took me 5 weeks give or take a few days to get the first af after the mc. Until now, it got really regular. The last day of every month (or the 1st of the next month). I'm 2 weeks late tomorrow. O.o That's 7 weeks since my last period.
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Originally Posted by charm
Hmm waiting nOOooOO I would go see the doctor otherwise you will go mad hun goodluck!!!
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Too late for that. I've got orientation today for a job at kmart so can't happen today. I can't schedule anything until I know my new work schedule.
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Originally Posted by HopefulMommy81
I'm sure this must be so frustrating for you! How long are your cycles usually? You said you weren't really regular after your m/c.....have you gone this long before? I would call your doctor and discuss your options and concerns with him/her and see what he/she recommends. Good luck!
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I've never gone this long without a period. 2 weeks is unheard of for me. 7 weeks since my last af! Uhg!! I'm gonna schedule an appointment with my doc when I know my work schedule. I just got hired at kmart. Orientation is today. I'm not sure I want to work if I'm gonna miscarry again (if I'm even pregnant) because I was so thankful the first time because i didn't have to deal with a job while grieving. I'll schedule an appointment when I know my schedule there.
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November 13th, 2009, 07:01 AM
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I hope you figure out what is going on and get that BFP on a bt!!!!
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November 13th, 2009, 01:13 PM
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Any News??? Just checking up on you...
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November 13th, 2009, 02:38 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Originally Posted by Kary♥RN
Any News??? Just checking up on you...
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Tested this morning with fmu on a dollar store cheapie and it was bfn. I'm going to the doctor this Monday. I'm done. I'm to the point now where I don't care what the answer is. I just need an answer. Not knowing sucks!
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November 13th, 2009, 04:32 PM
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November 14th, 2009, 09:52 AM
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Originally Posted by SkyBaby
Tested this morning with fmu on a dollar store cheapie and it was bfn. I'm going to the doctor this Monday. I'm done. I'm to the point now where I don't care what the answer is. I just need an answer. Not knowing sucks!
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How frustrating! I am thinking of you.
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10 days "late" and still getting bfns.. something's gotta be wrong with me :(
