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November 13th, 2009, 09:34 AM
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So the other day when I posted and just about every was able to see the very faint line on my HPT, I let myself get excited and think that I was pregnant. So yesterday morning a took a digi and it was negative - big blow! But I thought maybe it was just too early. So yesterday afternoon I went to the hospital to get blood work done and I was sure that it would be positive. The nurse called me and said "Your test came back negative. You are not pregnant." I just wanted to cry. DH is trying to convince me that maybe it's just too early, and maybe I am really pregnant. But at 10 DPO, I think a blood test should come out positive... Last night after midnight I used a dollar store test, just to use a different brand, and I got another extremely faint positive. Then this morning I tried not to test, but I had to, and I got that same really faint positive that I've been getting. I mean, the line has been there since 9 DPO. I see it. BUT, it's not getting any darker! I'm thinking that either I'm insane and making myself see lines that aren't there (but a lot of you saw lines too!), or that if I am pregnant, this pregnancy is not progressing the way it should be. What is going on here?

I was thinking last night.. When I was pregnant with DD, I tested on a Friday and it was negative. I did another on the following Monday (the day that my period was due) and it was positive. When I had my loss, I don't really know exactly how far along I was. When I tested on May 28th I had a negative, and on June 11th I got a positive (I did no testing in between). On june 21st I had my loss, and I THINK that I was about 8 weeks pregnant then. When I do the math there, it seems like I wasn't able to get a positive until after the day of my missed period. So, maybe it still is too early. Maybe I'm one of those women who can't get a positive until the day of my missed period. (But it does seem like my bloodwork would have come back positive). I'm so confused and frustrated! I know that I can't make it to Tuesday (when AF is due) without POAS again, but I'm so sick of not seeing that obvious line...
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November 13th, 2009, 10:05 AM
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There is a good posibilty that your baby has not implanted yet. You still have a couple more days to go before your at the end of implantation period (7-10), but sometimes it takes a couple more days for this to happen. Try to stay strong through the weekend. Have you tried a FRER yet? If your getting faint lines on the cheapies, than I would try a regular FRER, not a digital. Good luck!
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November 13th, 2009, 10:11 AM
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When I got pregnant with my daughter I took a test every two days for 3 months and they all came back negative. When i was 3months it finally came back positive( it was funny..the last test i bought we went to the commissary on base and bought a test and a pack of condoms...the lady looked at us and said if your buying this(prego test) then its too late for these.LOL ). Each loss Ive had Ive got an early BFP but they all end early.
When I had my son who was stillborn i didnt get a positive til i was almost 3months along....so maybe your body is just playing tricks on u.
I will keep you in my prayers that u will get a BFP.
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November 13th, 2009, 10:26 AM
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There is a good posibilty that your baby has not implanted yet. You still have a couple more days to go before your at the end of implantation period (7-10), but sometimes it takes a couple more days for this to happen. Try to stay strong through the weekend. Have you tried a FRER yet? If your getting faint lines on the cheapies, than I would try a regular FRER, not a digital. Good luck!
I agree. I will keep everything crossed for you. Good luck honey!
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November 13th, 2009, 12:05 PM
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Oh I am sorry this is being so frustrating for you... If you had blood work drawn and it was negative, the lines are most probably evaps.... Not that you might get that BFP in a few a days.. but HCG is in your Blood before it goes into the Urine. I hope you get you BFP! HUGS for what you are going through!
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November 14th, 2009, 08:30 PM
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Im soo sorry...Looks like we are in the same boat...I got a faint line on my 9dpo test and neg ever since then! I am soo confused. I hope that on wed. you get a BFP!! Keep us posted and Ill cross my fingers for you (and me)
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November 15th, 2009, 06:59 AM
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HUGS. I hope it's just too early. KUP!
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November 15th, 2009, 07:47 AM
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Thanks, everybody. I'm still feeling bummed out! I have resolved not to test again until Tuesday. I resisted the urge this morning and will try to keep it at bay for the rest of the day, and then I'll have to wake up and start all over again tomorrow. The fact that I'm pretty sure I won't get a BFP is helping.

I have been crampy, bloated, nauseous and had diarrhea on and off for the past few days.. I think these may be AF symptoms...

This stinks! Stupid evap lines or whatever you are getting my hopes up! I don't like you and I don't want to see you again! I was totally okay with the possibility of this cycle not working out until I saw those stupid lines that made me think I was pregnant! Now I'm just disappointed..

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Im soo sorry...Looks like we are in the same boat...I got a faint line on my 9dpo test and neg ever since then! I am soo confused. I hope that on wed. you get a BFP!! Keep us posted and Ill cross my fingers for you (and me)

I was just thinking about you and wondering what was going on. I'll keep my fingers crossed for both of us, too!
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November 15th, 2009, 09:16 AM
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I'm sorry that this cycle is so confusing I'm holding out hope that it's just too early to get your positive, and sending you lots of baby cooties!!
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