Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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November 14th, 2009, 08:59 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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In my heart I have accepted that I may never have a baby again, and I have finally found the peace to move on. This does not mean that I have given up, but I have finally just accepted my faite and stopped hurting.
I think I have always accepted this fact of not being able to have more, but hearing it from the dr.'s last week with my test results was a huge blow to me. It left me feeling useless, half a woman, and just heart broken. The feeling of being "broken" gave a whole new meaning. I mean, I have no more breasts and thought of not being able to produce, just left me feeling like a "it".
Anyways, just letting you all know that Im doing better and have not given up, just kinda taking each day and each appointment with a grain of salt.
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OMG, Here we go again! Good Lord, thank you for being so gracious! For everyone of my angels have been sent back to me again!
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November 14th, 2009, 09:21 AM
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fka teresarunningmommy
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(((Hugs))) I am going through some similar feelings Lori. I just didn't realize time was creeping up on me so soon. Taking things one day at a time sounds good to me.
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November 14th, 2009, 09:39 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Hi Lori. I have been thinking of you all of the time (which is nothing different, lol), but wanted you to know that I understand how you are feeling. Dont mean to let you down, but I couldn't even poas today. I just know that it will be a bfn and not sure if I can handle that today. I just dont want to see that one line and feel more broken.
You know how much I love you and I pray that we have miracles and beat all the odds and have 2010 babies to hold and love.
I hope this all came out right.... hugs xoxoxo
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November 14th, 2009, 09:53 AM
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HUGS!!! HUGS!!! HUGS!!! I am starting to feel the same way.. I woke up today with the feeling I will never be "Pregnant" again... Pregnant in the way I will have a healthy miracle at the end of 9 months to hold. I feel broken, with every testing I get another blow. Another obsticle standing in the way. Regardless of age.. 3 m/c in a row, MTHFR, Low sperm,mobitlity/morpholgy, needing clomid possiably IUI/IVF. I am not sure if my heart can contiune on this rollar coaster. I just want my DH to have that baby, his parents the oppertunity to be grandparents. I just am loosing hope....
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November 14th, 2009, 10:03 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Girls, hopefully Santa will fill our stockings this year with some beautiful STICKY BFPS! Thank you for sharing your thoughts too, I wish we had a better month here in TTCAL, its been so hard on so many of our members. Praying that the Holidays will give us all something to celebrate!
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Thank you Shortcake for my beautiful siggy..]
OMG, Here we go again! Good Lord, thank you for being so gracious! For everyone of my angels have been sent back to me again!
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November 14th, 2009, 10:12 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Quote:
Originally Posted by momof4lopez
Girls, hopefully Santa will fill our stockings this year with some beautiful STICKY BFPS! Thank you for sharing your thoughts too, I wish we had a better month here in TTCAL, its been so hard on so many of our members. Praying that the Holidays will give us all something to celebrate!
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I so agree. This month has been rough on this board. I am really hoping to see some BFP's and graduates.
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November 14th, 2009, 11:19 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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HUGE  for all!!!
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November 14th, 2009, 04:32 PM
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Lovin life and family
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Location: Washington
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Lori you know I am here for you whenever you need.
I wish there was more I could do to help.
This has been a terrible month on the board and it is taking a toll on all of us sadly.
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November 14th, 2009, 06:26 PM
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Pregnant with #3
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Join Date: Jun 2009
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Hugs and prayers for all...
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