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  #1  
November 16th, 2009, 12:02 PM
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I'll be joining this board in a few months...

My water broke and I lost my first baby at 17.5 weeks. It was a boy. I am beyond devastated.
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November 16th, 2009, 12:06 PM
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Oh my goodness. Huge hugs coming at you. ((((((((HUGS)))))))) I am so very sorry for your loss.
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November 16th, 2009, 12:17 PM
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Welcome, when you are ready, you will find the women here are very understanding. I cannot begin to tell you how devestating your news is. Im so sorry for the loss of your beautiful little boy.
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November 16th, 2009, 12:29 PM
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I am devasted to see you here. I remember you from the DDC. This has been the most supportive and caring group of ladies. I have found much comfort here since my loss in Sept.

Even if you are not actively trying, feel free to hang out here, ask questions. My sister told me something that has really helped me "However it is you are feeling right now, it is OK. It is ok to be sad, cry, be angry whatever, it's OK"

Some days will be worse than others, and that is OK.



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November 16th, 2009, 12:30 PM
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I'm so sorry.. I am sure you'll see him again some day.. *hugs*
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November 16th, 2009, 12:34 PM
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Oh, Bliss, I am so sorry for your loss!! I got goose bumps when I read your post. Please know that we are here whenever you need us and will try to support you in any way you need! And like zkat said, please feel free to hang out here and talk to us even if you're not going to be actively TTC for a while. MY T&P are with you and your family, as well as your baby, today!
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November 16th, 2009, 12:35 PM
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Oh no... I remember y ou from the April DDC.. I left early on but I remember you.. I am so sorry to hear of this hun... I will be praying for you, and when you are ready this group is a great group o supportive ladies.. There are also other groups like pregnancy loss and the still birth board that are great also.. HUGS!!!
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November 16th, 2009, 12:57 PM
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Oh Bliss..I am so very sorry for your loss!!!!!! HUGE HUGS!!!!! My heart is just breaking for you. Please know that we are here for you.
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November 16th, 2009, 01:10 PM
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I'm so so sorry.. I don't know what else to say, except I'm "new" to all of this too... and the support here has been amazing, everyone's helped me so much, so please stick around. Everyone's here for you xx
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November 16th, 2009, 02:25 PM
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Hugs hun I am so sorry! Please PM me if you need anything. My heart is breaking for you.
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November 16th, 2009, 02:39 PM
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Bliss I'm incrediably SORRY to hear about your devastating loss! Please know that we'll be here when you're ready and I truely hope you're not here long!!!
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November 16th, 2009, 04:01 PM
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Hugs and Prayers for you in this terrible time that you are going through. You will find all the support you need when you are ready to join this group and ttc again.
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November 16th, 2009, 04:13 PM
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I also remember you from the April DDC. My heart breaks for you. We had the same due date, too. I hope you find some comfort hear as I have. These ladies are amazing!
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November 17th, 2009, 07:06 AM
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I remember you for the April DDC, Im soo sorry for your loss. We're here for you.

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November 17th, 2009, 11:04 AM
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Bliss I am so sorry to see you in here. The almost exact same thing happened to me. If you want to talk please send me a message.
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November 17th, 2009, 01:13 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss.. HUGS... We are here for you when you need us. Please feel free to join us untill you decide when you want to start TTC... HUGS... to you.
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November 18th, 2009, 02:52 AM
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*Hugs* I am sooo sorry. I remember you from TTC #1. I'll be keeping your family in my prayers.
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November 18th, 2009, 03:17 AM
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HUGS. I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. I am also sorry to welcome you to this board, but I look forward to getting to know you.
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November 18th, 2009, 09:18 AM
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how devastating. I'm so sorry you have to go thru this.
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November 18th, 2009, 07:36 PM
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I am so very sorry for your loss I know it is not easy. If you need anything pm me

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