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November 17th, 2009, 11:20 AM
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Brooke
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Got a BFN when I tested yesterday (actually, the same extremely faint positive that I've been getting, but I've decided to call those negative), so I decided not to test today. Every BFN I see makes me feel worse, so I'm just waiting for AF to show now... Couldn't I just start ON TIME! Why does this cycle have to mess with my head so much?
I feel totally depressed. (Not just because of the BFNs. Life is crappy lately).
*UPDATE*
She just showed..  Back to CD1 for me. At least she showed the day she was supposed to and didn't make me wait any longer. Back to the drawing board...
Last edited by MonkeyBugMommy; November 17th, 2009 at 02:00 PM.
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November 17th, 2009, 11:21 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Hugs! I hope it's too early for you. AF's tricks are never a good addition to any bad happenings.
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November 17th, 2009, 11:35 AM
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Waiting for my turn.
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I hope af stays away.
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November 17th, 2009, 12:35 PM
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Super Mommy
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i hope she stays away too!!!
i hate BFNs
I got one just the other day... AF for me is 5days late
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November 17th, 2009, 12:36 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I hope you get your bfp soon, and that things start looking up for you.
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November 17th, 2009, 12:40 PM
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Pregnant with #3
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I am due to start as well... and I am getting BFN's and not happy about it. Every time I go to the bathroom, I dread looking (gross I know). I am feeling twinges of cramps, so I know she is on the doorstep. Dang her... come in and show your face so we can quit agonizing already!
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November 17th, 2009, 01:58 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Are you testing tomorrow? I hope you get a BFP! Will be waiting for an update!
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November 17th, 2009, 02:01 PM
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Brooke
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Thanks for the support, ladies. Updated in my first post..
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November 17th, 2009, 02:06 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am so sorry she showed... BOOO Hopefully this will be the last one for 9 months!!!
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November 17th, 2009, 06:22 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am so sorry she showed... AF is due today or tomorrow for me and hopefully she will be ontime. I tested BFN today with a FRER so I know I am out.
Hopefully this will be your month!!
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November 17th, 2009, 10:03 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Sorry Brooke and Missy, this does suck Onto a much better month, physically and emotionally...we just all need a good break!
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November 18th, 2009, 02:38 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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*Hugs* so sorry. Hoping for better news this coming cycle
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November 18th, 2009, 06:26 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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i'm sorry she showed, but i'm with you, IF she's going to show she should have the decency to show on time! hugs!!
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November 18th, 2009, 08:07 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry, Brooke Both that AF showed, and that life has been crappy.
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November 18th, 2009, 08:25 AM
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Waiting for my turn.
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Im sorry she showed. Maybe Santa has something else in mind for us for Christmas this yr.
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November 18th, 2009, 08:40 AM
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Brooke
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Quote:
Originally Posted by mommie2many
Im sorry she showed. Maybe Santa has something else in mind for us for Christmas this yr.
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You're right! That would be the best Christmas present ever!
Thank you all for your understanding words. It's nice to have people who understand how I feel. When I told DH yesterday that AF showed, he said (with a big grin on his face) "Oh well! We get to have some more fun trying!" I know he wanted me to be pregnant, and I know he was just trying to be optimistic, but I wanted him to tell me that he understood that I was sad.
BTW, AF is being a total B**** to me! I hardly ever get cramps, but this cycle they're BAD! At least I know I can take meds to help control them.
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November 18th, 2009, 09:16 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm sorry. hope next month is better
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November 18th, 2009, 10:45 AM
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Mom of 4
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Hugs!
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