Bummed out :(

mommie2many · #1 November 18th, 2009, 09:15 PM

I just dont understand why its so hard for us to get preggers. Dh and I use to say all he had to do was look at me and I was pregnant. Before my first m/c it took us 6 months to get preggers then I lost that baby, it took 16 months to get preggers again and I lost that baby to. I just done understand why it was so easy then and so hard now. I keep telling myself when God wants us to have another one then it will happen. But I get so upset when I get BFN or Af shows. I just want a sticky bean. Every month just makes me more depressed that the dam witch showed.

Sorry for venting.

momof6lopez · #2 November 19th, 2009, 04:04 AM

I can so relate. We have all felt this frustration here, and this last month was a an emotional one for alot of us. I think as the holidays get closer, its a harder nut to swallow.

Wishing you special holiday baby dust, mommie2many, that your turn is coming very soon. Hang in there please, hopefully this will be the last of the witch for a very long time......

iVari · #3 November 19th, 2009, 05:09 AM

I'm so sorry that you are having to feel like this

(((HUGS))), I'm hoping and praying that you turn is coming up really fast.

~Lynda~ · #4 November 19th, 2009, 05:51 AM

what you just said!!! HUGS

.:Shortcake:. · #5 November 19th, 2009, 06:05 AM

Hugs I think alot of us are feeling the same way right now.

Trish36 · #6 November 19th, 2009, 06:13 AM

I'm with you. My SIL used to call me fertile Myrtle, cause we basically decided we are going to get pregnant and bam we were within 2 months. Now it's been a year and nothing. I don't know what happened either.
I'm sorry you are feeling down right now! Don't give up hope!!! HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!!

MonkeyBugMommy · #7 November 19th, 2009, 07:45 AM

I'm sorry that you're going through this and feeling down. I hope you get your sticky bean soon!

mommie2many · #8 November 19th, 2009, 10:54 AM

Thanks ladies, I hope for lots of BFPs are under the tree this year.

*MomofO&Nat* · #9 November 19th, 2009, 11:27 AM

Agreed! Why must it be so hard? And so easy for others?

TeresaSuperMama · #10 November 19th, 2009, 12:10 PM

((((Hugs))))

sportsmom2 · #11 November 19th, 2009, 03:11 PM

I am in your same shoes... with both of my boys, it took exactly one "shot" and we were pregnant. My m/c was not a planned pregnancy (was switching b/c) but we got excited and wanted to try again... well, we have for 6 cycles so far and nothing. I know that doesn't seem like too long compared to some of you, but I do understand the frustration month after month when NOTHING happens.

Hoping we all end up with BFP's for the holidays!!